Do i have to work after delivering babies?

Question

I'm 19 years and still studing, i was looking forward of what am i going to do in future. Shall i keep working after getting pregnant and babies? Or shall i stay at home, to take good care of kids, house and my future husband?

What do you suggest? To work or not? Thanks.

Answer 1

it truly depends on what you and your future husband decide. like if he makes enough money to support the family then stay home and be a wonderful mother. though if he doesnt then you may have to work. but just bc you arent at home with your baby 24/7 doesnt mean that you would be a bad mother. just dont go back to work immediately. most ppl wait a few months.

Answer 2

I suggest you work.

Take turns taking care of the baby.

You dont want him to get to use to working cause he'll start talking smack to you when he gets mad.

He's gonna say that only he is working, paying the bills and supporting you and the baby.

You dont wanna hear that.

It doesnt feel good.

Oh and when you go through rough times in your relationship atleast you'll have money to dig out.

=)

Answer 3

It's completely up to you. It depends on how strongly you feel about staying home, or working. And if you can afford to live on just your husband's income. I am a stay at home mom-for now. My daughter is 9 months. I plan to definitely continue staying home with her til she's atleast a year, but it'll probably be a while after that. I will go back to work eventually though, because while we can survive off my husband's salary, money is tight.

Answer 4

I stayed home for the first year of my daughters life I go back to work in October my daughter will be a 14 months buy then

Answer 5

well that's something only you and your future husband can decide, If you can live well enough with just one income (your future husband's)  then...stay at home , but If you think that only one income will not be enough for your family...then work.

I only work because I need to..but If I could survive with only one income...I would stay at home too.