Do i like my bestfriend?

Question

So me and this kid, have been really close for about a year now. He's not the cutest guy around but he's really sweet. He's liked me on and off for the year that i've known him, and i've liked him a few times too. Well now he likes this girl, who goes to our school. She's pretty and shes pretty popular, and i dont know why, but whenever he talks about her, i get like, sad. Do you think i like him? I mean he's my bestfriend but whenever he seems to like someone else, it makes me like, jelous i guess. Someone please help me!

Answer 1

Not necessarily. Maybe you think you won't spend as much time with him if he gets a girlfriend. Honestly, we don't know what you are feeling to answer this question properly.  

Answer 2

of course you like him or you wouldnt be obsessing about him right now! You obviously care about him or you wouldnt have written this post! You call him your best friend so psychologically you can talk yourself into this, but if you will be honest, deep down you want more from him than just friendship. Otherwise it wouldnt make you sad when he shows interest in another girl....

The help you need is to take this advice and go to him and tell him that you like him as more than a friend. It's scary and risky but you need to tell him the truth.

Answer 3

That's a tough call. You might like him but then again you might just feel like he's replacing you with another girl. You could be jealous of the amount of time he spends with her instead of you? It could be a number of things, but if your friend is really happy with this girl then don't get involved, it could make things pretty messy.

Answer 4

It sounds like u could be diggin 4 him a little, now I don't know but if this girl is known 4 doing sumthing like smoking or she might be a ***** then u might be worried about him? Its funny how a girls minds works around there "guy" best friends.