Do i over buy for my goddaughter?

Question

My friend who i worked with for about 6 mo got pregnant and i was there when she found out she was pregnant, when the father dumped her, when she almost had a miscarriage and when she got fired from her internship so i went through alot with her and i help her get maternity clothes. Well she had a little girl who is the most precious little girl and i am the godmother of her daughter and i buy most of clothes and try to help her out as much as i can and she tells me everyday how much i have helped her and how she couldn't of done it with out me. I'll just pick up clothes cause they are cute and are on clearance or sale. I have friend who says she doesn't need me to do it and i shouldn't help her out and the baby is just a baby and should get support from me. This friend has told me this on more than one occasion and her and the baby's mom don't like each other its mostly the friend. the babies mom thinks shes jealous of my relationship with her and the baby. btw the other friend hates it when i have other friend and is a very controlling , demanding, and likes to put others down when it doesn't benefit her.

Answer 1

you love your frd and her child, there's absolutely nth wrong with helping her out. if you have great discounts on items she needs, then you're helping her alot ~ in the long run, perhaps you could consider helping her in a different way -- teach her to be financially independent; to support her when she is parenting her child, provide her with resources that will be helpful to her etc.

again, nth wrong wth helping her out, but sooner or later, she will have to rely on you less and be more independent, and having a frd like you will give her the confidence she needs to get back on her feet.

your other frd -- as you mentioned-- is controlling and demanding and likes to put others down... i wouldn't listen to her too much. i'll listen but i won't accept her advice. you can tell her " thanks for caring about me... i will consider your thoughts and do what i think is best for the child and the mother and myself. thanks again!"

Answer 2

dont listen to her! you are suck a good friend for doing this. great job we need more ppl like u in the world

Answer 3

Do whatever you think is good in helping others. Never mind about the other gossip.  

Answer 4

if you like giving that baby things, then do it.

your friends aren't you

they dont get to hear the thank yous

and see the look on her face

If it makes you happy

Do it!

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Answer 5

shes jealous