Do i send her the gifts i got her?

Question

my girlfriend has been distant lately and after we were supposed to talk she still hasn't called back, its been 5 days, it is long distance relationship, through the months i have been getting her little things for her birthday and now i'm unsure i should send them, her birthday is in a little over a week

Answer 1

you should go visit her with the gifts

Answer 2

If you cannot pin her down on what the deal is, then do this:  Send her ONE of the presents you bought her.  Tell her you have more and you will be keeping those for her until you see her in person.  That way you do not seem like a jerk for NOT getting her anything and you will not be giving a big gift to a girl who you may not be with for long.

Answer 3

Send the gifts to her. It will still melt her heart. :-)

Answer 4

Of course you send them, you bought them for her.  Just send them with your best wishes, and no expectations.  Que sera, que sera.  What will be, will be.

Answer 5

I think you should go ahead and send the gifts to her.

I'm currently in a long distance relationship, and yeah... it's so hard.  For a while there I got a little distant with my guy and he thought I had lost interest, but there were just some personal things going on -- we had to learn how to talk about those things.  Anyways... LD is hard, but its worth giving it a try.  My guy and I have been LD for 8 years (since I was 14)... we became engaged back in December... and we are getting married October 2009.  LD relationships do work... but it takes a little more effort, and a little more patience and understanding.  

Send her the gifts... give it a shot and see how she reacts.  If she doesn't respond, she's not worth your time... but at least you will know.  You don't want to go on thinking "what if?"

Good Luck!

Answer 6

5 days does seem a bit extreme considering that communication is key in long distant relationships. BUT I do think you should send them to her... after all, she was in your thoughts when you bought them. This can also be your 'last chance' momentum. It can either bring you back together or at least give you closure.  

Answer 7

long distance relationships are very very very hard.

you should send her the gift because then she will know that you are thinking about her and that you do care :]

Answer 8

It depends you can send her the gifts or suprise her with the gift at her front door :O)