Do indecisive Libra men ever choose the other woman?

Question

HI I'm a Sag sun, Pisces moon, Libra Rising :) (dunno if that helps)

Ill keep this story short. This libra guy and i met over 2 years ago, and we have been very good friends. After a bad breakup i had last year him and i hung out and eventually his charm got me into bed (omg AMAZING!). Well we were dating for a short time but i just felt like our friendship felt more special to me so i kinda cut him off... he asked me out a few times but i blew him off. I met a pisces guy and ive been with him for like 9months now.

Now I find this Libra back into my life (were in the military) and were deploying together. Well hes engaged (to a virgo) but still asks me out, and we made this plan on the spur of the moment to take a vacation together to Germany after our deployment. But he hasn't left his Fiancee... WHAT tha heck is up? I know i probably sound like a home wrecker... but honestly he doesn't seem ready for marriage if hes after me!

Am i just an option on his bookshelf? Do i really even mean anything to him or is that just his libra politness and he doesnt want to upset me? Would he ever even leave his Virgo love?

Answer 1

OMG Mattison you are sooooooooooooo right on the money w/ Libra men!!  what you were saying sounds exactly like my past situation!  

I dated a libra for 2 crazy years (ironically his ex was a virgo, lol) and he was soooooooo possesive and jealous, it drove me crazy!  He was very egotistical and vain and didnt realize he was losing me until it was too late.  once I broke it off w/ him and told him to never call me again, he called me, text me, msged me on myspace million times and i never once responded.  it drove him almost as nuts as he drove me when we were together! lol.

Its been 6 months since i broke off contact and our relationship off and he has tried to contact me up until 3 wks ago.i know if i let him back in even as a friend, he would try and re-kindle our relationship.  

i never trusted him either, he says he cheated on his (the virgo) and admitted it to her but yeah right i didnt believe him a bit.  he just said taht to munipulate me into believing if he cheated on me he'd tell me.

they're munipulative too! lol.

girrrrrl, dont let this guy string you along, he will never make up his mind and will just try and see the both of you!!

Answer 2

omg I've been in this situation before with a Libra dude. Let it go, girl. The fact he's this fence-sitter is a turn-off enough. I prefer a man who knows what he wants. Haven't you already discussed this with him? I think you seriously should.

My first inclination as to why he may harbor an attachment to this Virgo female, is that their suns are most probably in conjunction. Suns in conjunction give similar outlooks and comfort. Great for friendship, but which can result in one taking the other for granted.

Answer 3

Probably a white lie. Maybe he is with a Virgo and is thinking about marriage or maybe he is just dating one. He tells you this to see how you react.

Libras are too complex to really tell with them. Maybe you should plan the trip to Germany, but make it mandatory he brings his Virgo grilfriend. Actually no maybe, just do it. Invite them both. lol

Answer 4

all the time.

Answer 5

I agree with the other answers. I just don't trust Libra guys, I'm sorry. I'm also a Virgo, so that's kind of ironic that your Libra is committed to a Virgo girl. But yeah, Libra guys have always proven to me that they are way too flighty to be in a committed relationship. They may be interested in you at one point, but they're just way too hard to "hold on to." And they are definitely big on lying, in my opinion. They are jealous too, and love to be the center of attention... so the minute you realize that you are too good for their games and you go try to live your life without them, they come back to you and try to charm their way into your bed. They're just... ugh I don't know. I think I've said enough lol. Not that your Libra guy is EXACTLY like this, he's a different person and he may not be as messed up as my past Libra lover. But just keep this in mind. Hope this helps!