Do less attractive guys get invited to parties?

Question

starting my 1st year in college and in high school i only had a few friends but i want to make more friends in college and go to parties and maybe have a girlfriend. But is it still possible for me to accomplish this if i'm less attractive?

Answer 1

College is a time to be REBORN!

No one knows who you are like back in high school. Make a name for yourself. Get out and meet people. Don't hold back and be shy or else people won't get to know someone new and possibly great. Don't worry about girlfriends right now. Now is the time to get out and meet all kinds of girls. Focus on your studies and get your degree. Girls can be very distracting and veer you off your career goals.

I recommend you listen to the TOM LYKIS show. Great advice for guys our age. Be open minded and you'll have a great outlook on your college years. Go to: www.blowmeuptom.com

Answer 2

Make things happen with your personality.  People will see and feel it longer before just someone's good looks.  

Answer 3

Absolutely!  Beauty may open doors but its personality that will keep you in the room & get you invited back.

And don't be so hard on yourself!  Everyone at your age & stage of life feels about the same as you.  Growing up & moving on is unavoidable & always a bit scary.  Trust yourself & you'll be fine.

Answer 4

Why do you feel you need to be invited to parties? Going to college is about fulfilling your dream of becoming a somebody. Once you get your education youre set for life. You get invited to parties more because of what you do rather than what you look like and finding a girlfriend isnt going to be hard either. Focus more on what you know you can get and not so much on fitting in. Girls and parties are a distraction

Answer 5

Dude no cares what you look like at parties. they just want everyone to be there and have a good time. if your a decent guy then you should have no problems doing anything you want to.

Answer 6

I was worried about the exact oppisite that I would go from alot of friends to no friends. Anyway the beauty about college especially your freshman year is hardly anyone knows anyone so everyone is looking to make friends. If you are living in a dorm don't sweat it friendship comes naturall. If you are going to a big college like wvu my school or ohio state 25,000 plus students you will be going to parties , bars, and night clubs with all of your friends. smaller schools less than 10,000 students do not typicaly have a big party scene however you should have fun. Just make sure when you see a new face to say whats up and join a club that interest you and friends should be no problem believe me I had the exact same thoughts last summer and everything turned out great. Iv'e been to frat houses, bars, 6 keg parties, and others I can't remember lol. Good luck and have fun bro. Study study study the work is not easy.

Answer 7

Get to know the right people and you should be fine.