Do married people sometimes feel lonely? is it the same type of loneliness that singles feel?

Question

Inspired from tarre question

Answer 1

yeah, when she's out of country..

Answer 2

more time and would be severe than single peoples

Answer 3

Yes, it could happen.  Depending on the marriage and situation.  But I don't believe is the same type of loneliness as a single person might feel...

Answer 4

Yes, and its actually worse. Imagine feeling isolated with someone who once respected you, but now holds you in contempt. My advice: Stay single, or be ruthless.

Answer 5

Wordsworth , the English  Romantic  Poet Laureate of the 18c , described his feeling in a poem saying ,

I felt lonely in a crowd

this line shows that feeling lonely can occur even in the presence of others .

this can be a fleeting feeling that has nthing too do with our company .

but if the feeling remains , something is wrong in the marriage .

your Q says , SOMETIMES .

so, yes, it is the same type that singles feel.

it is common to all mankind , married or single .

if it is ALWAYS , the marriage is at stake .

Answer 6

Yea I'm pretty sure they do sucks for them!

Answer 7

Hey Aster, how r u doing?

Well am not married yet but i think loneliness for married people is the worst.

So hard to live with the only person u love n care for n feel lonely.

Answer 8

I sure did feel lonely as sometimes I felt my husband didn't care. I would cry. Maybe I was grieving for my freedom. He was there and he was loving but something was missing......

Answer 9

I was married for a short time in my life , and at that time I felt lonely all the time,  He was never home , always working , he was gone  early in the morning and did not come home until early the next morning .  I like my life now , I am alone but I find so much to do to keep my mind busy ,  I don't have a "void "  in my life , My thoughts on  not being lonely are  ------- keep thinking of things that make me  happy , or busy , doing things that keep  my  mind full of  adventure-------Warning  !!!!! It  does not work for everyone .

Answer 10

Yes they can feel loney but not the same way singles do

Answer 11

Everyone feels lonely sometime. I am lonely for my children at times, they live far away. I am lonely for my family at times and even friends I haven't seen in a while....I don't find the feeling different than when I was living alone, single...I was simply, lonely...and I still feel it from time to time.

Answer 12

Yes,married people can feel lonely even for years,this is totally different of how singles feel,as a married person who feels lonely has additional psychological load .

Answer 13

I am married, and I sometimes feel lonely.  It's very fleeting, however, because my spouse is so wonderful.  I think it might be a feeling of missing that excitement over the first kiss, fist touch, etc.

Answer 14

WE all feel lonely sometimes. Married people can feel lonely when the activities of

life keep you from spending enough time to gather. If you have a bad marriage,

you can feel extremely lonely.

In my opinion it's not the same as single people the reason being singles are used to

being alone at times. They also don't live with someone thus aren't used to a routine

with that person.  The factor that makes it the same is wondering if you are loved. That

feeling is the same for married and single people at certain times in their life only for different reasons. I hope you like the answer.

Answer 15

yes you can feel lonely and no it is not the same.