Do men always prefer younger girlfriends? Why? I am 33, single. What should be my target audience ideally?

Question

Actually, I like a bit older(35-40) ladies for friendship, because they are more caring and understanding. But the problem is that I don't want to get physical with them because they are already too used up.

I can get physical with younger girls(20-30), but many of them are too immature and fussy. Which one you prefer younger or older. What are the pros and cons in either case?

Answer 1

Date a 40 year old woman with a 20 year old daughter?

Answer 2

Not always. My mom is a year younger than my dad, but my aunt is three years older than my uncle. The pros and cons are a matter of perspective. In your case, "used up" could also mean that they have more experience and are likely more confident with their moves.

I find that I have a tendency to be interested in guys who are slightly younger than I am. My current beau is five months younger than me.

Answer 3

Looks like you got the rise out of people that you were looking for, huh.

Men don't always prefer younger women.  The only men that would think in this manner are the immature and shallow ones.  A good woman wouldn't want him anyway, so he has nothing to worry about, whether she's young or not.

With your way of thinking, if you want a woman like you, I would suggest finding a barfly at the local tap.  Lots of like-minded women there.

Answer 4

Wow. Just plain wow.

Answer 5

Are you buying a car or looking for a partner? Do you always do what other people think you should do? Are you unwilling to date women 35 to 40 because you think they will find you lacking compared to their other lovers? Your self-esteem is very lacking.

Answer 6

it don't mater what age she is so long as it is not to young for me. her age has nothing to do with the spark in her eye and the sweet way she carries her self. but, it don't mater for me I'm not what they want anyways.

Answer 7

honey, I doubt anyone here or anywhere else is interested in how you amuse yourself by boring others.

Answer 8

When you compartmentalize your life like that, you make it impossible to have a successful relationship with the opposite s*x.

Try the holistic approach.

Answer 9

If you are after a relationship leading to the creation of a family then younger is better. If you just want a relationship with no children then go with your preference of older women if you are attracted to them.

Preferring an older woman when your 18 (eg 28) is okay, but when your 45 a 55 year old is not such a good prospect. Fertility has a lot to do with attraction.

Just some thoughts.

Answer 10

I will soon be 42.  My husband is 31.  

We get along great.

Sounds like, from what you said about 35-40 year olds being too "used up", that you need to date an 18 year old.  They should be exactly the same level of maturity as you....just reading your uneducated statements.

Be forewarned....many 18 year olds are more used up than 40 year olds.

It might be best for you to not marry at all.  You might get turned off and leave your wife and child after she gives birth.  You'll definitely get scared of that post-partum body.

and the sorry guy above who said that women over 40 can't have kids....THEY CAN...and DO.

Answer 11

I wouldn't worry about it mate, if you are thinking of them like that then they aren't going to be insterested anyway.

Answer 12

I prefer young and fussy over old and menopausal.

Answer 13

Actually  I am interested in this question myself.  What are my prospects in the dating world gentlemen?  I obviously fall into the pre-owned category.(I refuse to use the term "used up")

Answer 14

My dad is 49 and his boo is 53. There is nothing wrong with this. They get along quite well.

Answer 15

Well, you are a bit too used up for older women.  They prefer the guys about 22-29.  And they have no trouble getting them.  Men your age lack passion, and you act like you are bored with s*x,  You are just not any fun any more.

Answer 16

I have that same problem but it is the opposite way around. I am only 15 and I love a mature boy. The only problem is there isn't any where I go to. Maybe the Seniors but the cute ones are gone now. How I wish I could find a mature boy but they are all over 18. The only people that I can go out with now are all the boys that are as smart as me.I'll be going to Harvard soon anyway just got to wait 3 more years. To be totally honest a women is at her sexual best after the age of 30 cause (hopefully) she has had experience.

Answer 17

older women used up??? are you serious? h**l if anything older women are way more in touch with their "physical" side than the younger ones. I would say that they would probably teach you a few new tricks.

Answer 18

let me just give you some general advice which will help you immensely:  never, EVER, EVER, repeat any of your ideas about women and age in public, because I guarantee you will not get a positive response if you do, unless you're at a strip club or around a bunch of real bonehead guys.  in decent society, calling older women "used up" is offensive and NOT attractive.  even a twenty year-old bimbo would probably find this type of thinking very shallow.