Do men and women feel the same feelings of love?

Question

Do men and women feel the same feelings of love?

Answer 1

I think the root of the 'love' feeling is the same, but how each s*x expresses it is a bit different. Everyone is human and it's the most human emotion.

Answer 2

I think that every person feels love in a different way. For example, if your priorities are privacy and space to make you feel safe, than you will feel love in a private way. If you are one that prioritizes showing love and romantic gestures, you will feel love in a different way. If you are extrovert or introvert, you tend to feel differently about life. Whether you are sensitive or not, expressive or not. All these things tend to make your love and feelings towards it individual. Having said that, many men and women have different prioporites and perspectives in life, so I think that they could possibly feel love differently.

For example, I had a very strange email from a guy on here the other day. He seemed to think that the ONLY way deep love is shown is in protectiveness. If seemed to think that if one did not show strong protective qualities and did not put themselves in danger to keep their partner safe, or be willing to, that they did not love as deeply. He totally disregarded those that value love be feeling safe and protected, as well as those that express love by nurturing, or by expression of gestures, and so on.

So although men and women may very well often feel love differently, that is not always the case. It can happen often and probably mostly, but not always. It is based on the values of the person (which are often different due to the different realities of the genders in our society).  

Answer 3

I believed so.

Two adults, attracted and feeling the same thing towards each other. Called love. Sharing same emotions/ feelings and wanting to be together. Life together.



Love is a many splendour things.

Answer 4

I'd say yes

Answer 5

i dont know, i dont dare ask my bf he'll get pissy as i have no feelings of love ever.  

Answer 6

It depends on character. I think women are more romantic than men which I think is sad as I love romantics. I think women are the ones that get that butterfly feeling more than men. Even though my bf told me that he couldnt sleep at night thinking of me and how he was going to go about asking me out.

Answer 7

No, the feelings are opposite in nature.  The man's feelings in love are opposite to that of woman but both are complementary.  Women's love is very absorbing, of acceptance..  and that of man is to lose himself into the woman.

Answer 8

No I do not think that men have the same feelings as women when it comes to real true love.The feelings and emotions are just not the same.A woman will give you her heart and sole whereas a man will not be so emotional and will be afraid to show too many true feelings.Not every man is the same and there are many men who never forget to send flowers etc; to show their love.Not every man reacts in this way because they think they do not have too.It is just a matter of opinion but some men do care more than others

Answer 9

it seems like theres differences but at the same time the feeling is the same. i hate men sometimes ughg so annoying  

Answer 10

To quote

"Love is of man`s life a thing apart, `tis woman`s whole existance."

So no.

Answer 11

Thats a 64 dollor question, As a male and an old romantic I would like to think that love is the same fore men and women but they probably show it in different ways, Men don't always say that they love some one as its a c***k in their armour and some men just don't like to show their feelings, I've found that some women like to see a man showing their feelings as it brings you onto the same level of feelings. oh and love making is much better.

Answer 12

Men and women will always see things in a different way, but I think if it's TRUE love...I would have to say yes.