Do men find anything attractive about imperfections?

Question

Im never with it, and i really want to become more intelligent, i dont mean to be so clumsy, but i always seem to make a boob of myself somehow.

I always worry. I always apologise. I swear sometimes and im so ashamed of it. I say the wrong things at the wrong time. I say before i think.

I just wish i was different, because i dont want my boyfriend to think i havent got any brains what so ever.

I know certain things, and i want people to know theres more to me than being ditzy.

I just dont think my bf will find anything along them lines, nice about me, i want to be some really clever interlectual women who knows what she wants out of life, to be honest i havent got a clue what i want out of mine. and im finding it really difficult atm.

Answer 1

I think that people are attracted to each other for their good qualities...but love each other for their imperfections.  I hope that helps.

Answer 2

we are not all the same some are confident some aint, some know what they want and some are indecisive thats life - if we were all the same life would be sooooooooooooo boring!!

it would be like the stepford wives

Answer 3

I am clumsy, I say the wrong thing at the wrong time, I sound not so bright sometimes (even though I am), I don't always know where I am going, but you know what my husband finds most of those things cute...he know I am smart and funny and have it together but sometimes I just can't seem to get it out right....so if he loves you he will see past all the c**p and know that you are the one...by the way he probably isn't perfect either....

Answer 4

i'm not sure about other guys, but personally i do, i think it makes people more unique and interesting to know. nobody is perfect, if someone does'nt like you just because you have a few imperfections, then its their problem not yours. just be yourself.