Do men like larger women if she is actually kinda pretty?

Question

I consider myself to be some what attractive but i am a plus size woman. I just want to know what guys (and lesbians) think about my sized people.

Answer 1

I'm neither of the two you asked to respond to your question, but I'm a plus sized lady...I know you didn't notice, did ya!?  lol  I've seen big women that I found dispicable because they looked like trailor trash, and I've seen big women that I thought were absolutely beautiful!  It's all in the way you carry yourself, how you take care of yourself, and in your attitude.

I went a couple months back to get my driver's licenses renewed, and the little German lady that works there said, "Can I ask you zumthing?  Will you get offended?"  I said, "No ma'am...ask away!"  Again, she asked if I'd be offended.  I reassured her that my life was an open book...if I didn't want to answer it, I wouldn't.  I was really beginning to worry about what she was going to ask me...she was REALLY intent on making sure I wouldn't be offended, so what gives???  She looked me in the eye and said, "You're beautiful!  My boyfriend and I think some larger ladies have the most beautiful faces.  My dear, you're beautiful."  Well, slap me down!  Honey, I felt like a million bucks!  I'm sure I blushed at her compliment...probably 15 shades of red.  She said, "I hope I haven't offended you."  NO MA'AM!!  She hadn't offended me AT ALL!  She made my day!

I informed her that she may not see me as beautiful for long, because I was having Lap Band surgery soon.  She said, "Oh, Honey, with your attitude, you'll be beautiful no matter what size you are!"  If she only knew, bless her heart, how I needed to hear that!  Being a big lady, you get looked down upon by so many people in society, and made to feel lower than a dog.  To have her tell me I was beautiful was like handing me the title to Mrs. America!  As I left, Hubby noticed I was beaming and asked what was so special about the DMV...I said, Nothing...I'm just beautiful!  lol

So, Darlin', as long as you think you're beautiful, it really doesn't matter what people think!  You fall in love with the skin you're in and throw your head back, nose in the air, and walk like you're the next Ms. America!  I'll share the run-way with ya!  

God's blessings on you and yours...Always!!

Answer 2

i like chubby chicks but not fat sloppy ones that are stereotypical slobs.

big is nice as long as she can carry herself in a way that is attractive. i mean as long as she does not use her chubs to get handicap plates, use electric carts at the supermarket or have zits under all the folds or blubber.

my g/f is big and she's hot. nice big boobies too. she;s clean, and well groomed all over and cooks, cleans and serves cold beer.. yummy

Answer 3

I agree with Little Tyme - it is definitely about how you present yourself to the world. If you have a great attitude and confidence in yourself other people will see it.  

One book I read recently that I loved that I highly recommend to women of all sizes - How to Not Look Fat, by Danica Lo.

Answer 4

Im not a man...or a L*****n but i deff. think some larger women are pretty. I saw some girl at the zoo the other day that was very plus size but she had a beautiful face and great hair! Its all in how you carry yourself! if you show confidance and take care of yourself then people will notice!

Answer 5

Definately!! I'd kill for america ferrera!

Answer 6

I like girls of all shapes sizes and race, as long as they have a good personality!

Answer 7

A pretty smile takes attention away from a lot of other things.