Do men prefer a bossy take charge women for a life long relationship or a sweet stand by your man type?

Question

Do men prefer a bossy take charge women for a life long relationship or a sweet stand by your man type?

Answer 1

sweet stand by ur man no doubt

Answer 2

The real loving sweetheart kind.

Answer 3

Oh no no no only soft men with no testosterone love bossy women... as for me i love a sweet stand by my side no doubt!! It does not in any case mean that the woman is somehow inferior in the relation.. no no no both are equal... i simply hate bossy women all they get from me is the middle finger.  

Answer 4

Every man is different. My general rule is you have to be a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets so a take charge woman in bed but a sweet stand by elsewhere.  

Answer 5

"Prefer" is probably too subjective

What they grew up with;  with a Mom, and how she and Dad acted, has to be part of how the children act too, being so influenced, but the kids hardly see all the pirivate times.

Hopefully as one matures they get a sense of themselves and what they might "prefer" OR accept at least. "Accept" being a keyword. Maybe a better word is tolerate?

By the way, it works with the opposite in the gender sense too. "HE beats me but I LOVE him"???

I think it's probably obvious that we all want "ideal" but we all define that differently. Another point, is Life Long. That could be 60 years together or  60 minutes if it wasn't working.

No insult to you, but the Q is a wee bit sexist, as WE think the same as guys about relationships in a loving sense and both genders always hope for the best.

I wanna stand "next" to my man, not behind him or in front of him. I want him to feel the same.

A.F.

Answer 6

Every man is different, you cannot generalise like that.