Do men really last that long in bed?

Question

There's no way a man can last 45 minutes of straight s*x without having an o****m,unless you've already had s*x 3 or 4 times in a row,or he masturbated about 10 times that day. s*x normally lasts about 4-8 minutes tops. Most women say their men last 45 minutes but they count in the time for foreplay which lasts 40 mintues or so. If any woman says their man lasts that long,then their obviously getting it on with that hot,young secretary at work before he comes home.

Answer 1

yes they do ! I never thought so until I dated a guy back in march.  We went out to dinner, then drinks, then talked at his house for a few hours ..so I know he hadn't already had s*x in the previous few hours.  However, he still managed to last over an hour ~ wow, he was GREAT !!!!

Answer 2

I agree that most men don't last 45 min the 'first' time of the day.  But some do.  There are some that can last hours the 'first' time of the day, without banging someone else before (how could they bang someone else when you were w/ them for 48 hrs straight and even showered w/ them??).

What is your problem w/ men that can last a long time anyway??

Answer 3

I'm lucky if its five minutes....lol..

Answer 4

4-8 minutes? The average guy can go for a about 15-20 minutes.

But yes, I have definitely experienced intercourse that lasts 45 minutes and longer. And he wasn't drunk, nor had he just masturbated, nor was he having s*x with me or anyone else previously.  

Answer 5

Not true Eric.  I can last very long, but we do have s*x more than once most days, I do m********e (all men do).  Yes, I will have an o****m, sometimes 3 times in a session, 2 is very common, but that doesn't mean it is over!  d**n, just keep right on going!  You mean you stop when you c*m?  Women HATE that!

Answer 6

cause they can. you learn it through masturbating and taking your time, buil up your stamina through the years.

if you last 4 - 8 mminutes you beter be making the woman o****m through foreplay, i suggest 69. my husband can easily do 69 me o****m and hen go onto s*x without orgasming. how old are you 14 or a virgin? get some self control man!

Answer 7

Right - it's not non stop unless you've wacked one or two off beforehand.  

Answer 8

if my girl cant last 3.  4 hours .. i not going there .. .. stuff 45 min ..  

Answer 9

I woudl say my guy can go a good 15-20 straight, not 45 though, with no break? thats a little much.

Answer 10

Yes it is normal for sexauly active men. I am 48 years old and when I have s*x more than once a day my third takes forever "off course with breaks", my woman loves it.

Answer 11

Yes, men do last that long.  Seconds and thirds especially.

Answer 12

actually, with the right help and arrangements, you can last 45 minutes.. ;)

you just have to know what you are doing... :D

Answer 13

My husband and I have s*x everyday, if not every other. And he has always lasted at least 45 mins. Usually longer. Even when we first started dating, he hadn't had s*x in a year and he still lasted 30 mins. There are ways of controlling it. It doesn't mean he's sleeping around. Sorry about your luck.

Answer 14

45 minutes of in and out- not going to happen.

Answer 15

you re kidding right ! seriously if you only last 4 to 8 mn man you ve got an issue . my hubby last longer without foreplay . sometimes i have to give up .

Answer 16

Yup, I am 68 and have heard those stories too. I used to manage 15 minutes when I was in my forties but was doing it seven nights a week one or two times. Been married to the same woman for 45 years be 46 in a month and no reason to lie about it.

Answer 17

my husband can go for awhile maybe not 45min. but at least 20 or so(after foreplay)...It's called control...he isn't cheating I don't cheat either and can go for awhile.

Answer 18

As a woman, I wouldn't even WANT a man to last an hour or anything. If it's short, it's a great compliment to me I think. After it goes on too long the passion is gone and it's just squeaking mattresses and minds wandering. A mad, passionate, rough quickie is right where I wanna be.

TMI, sorry.

Answer 19

There are ways to control it you know. I can easily make it last that long.

Answer 20

You're wrong, most guys i kow do at least 45 minites.....s*x lasts only 4-8 minutes because you have NO self control!

Answer 21

Yes men can last that long.  It is called looking after your partner.  Young men statistically last longer but a mature guy like me can rock your world .

Answer 22

lol.. wow..

I only been with one man.  My husband and yes he knows how to put it down.. =)

Answer 23

Umm, I hate to burst your bubble but many many of us last that long and longer, even without tantric s*x gibberish.    

Answer 24

Well, you can stroke your ego all you like... but some men can go quite a long time in bed if the mood is right.  Part of being a good lover is having that kind of self control, so you can give a woman as many mind blowing orgasms as she can handle.

Sorry to bruise your fragile ego there.

Answer 25

he lasts about 2 minutes

Answer 26

that isn't really all that long. and yes it is possible. it depends of the will power and the sensitivity the man has. that it depends on how much he can with hold his release.

Answer 27

My husband lasts about 15-20 minutes, but he definitely has control over how long he wants it to go. If we are in a big hurry, he can finish up in just a few minutes, but back when we first started dating and wanted nothing more than to have s*x all day....that's exactly what we did. He lasted over an hour and a half one time! After a while though, we returned to reality, and after 6 years together we both feel happy with 15-20 minutes.