Do modern women need to back down?

Question

I recently broke up with my girlfriend because she always felt that we had to be equal in our relationship. I am of the firm belief that a man will give a woman all the love and attention she desires if she understood that her role in life was not to be equal to her husband/boyfriend but to be his caring and supportive wife/girlfriend. Feminism sucks because it is killing the soul of the man and it has created two generations of women who think they don't need a man to make them happy. Most women I meet are so d**n independent and men are made to feel stupid - ie, "Everybody Loves Raymond" where Ray is the fool and the wife is the cunning ***** who always bosses him around.

Our divorce rate is sky high and the birth rate for the white population in Europe and the United States is dying while the non-white women are breeding and keeping stable families.

So here is my question, what is so great about women acting like men and taking on the traditional bread winner role? Isn't it hurting us more than helping us?

Answer 1

You are very confused and have not risen much within yourself if you need to ask if women as a "gender" should or would ever EVER again "assume the position". Misogyny is a mental and social disease.

Answer 2

They must be given the opportunity to pursue any outcome they desire. That's how we treat individuals as human beings.

However they don't have to pursue the same outcomes as you but if they choose to then its really not your business to tell them they can't or shouldn't. They should and can if that's their decision

Answer 3

Your girlfriend wanted to act like a man?  Are you sure?  You said she just wanted to have an equal relationship.  At any rate, I am sorry things did not work out for you, but it's probably for the best for both of you.

Answer 4

You need to find a foreign woman who comes from a country where women still believe in traditional gender roles. More American men than ever before are marrying foreign brides.  

Answer 5

If a woman's independence makes you feel stupid, that's exactly what you are. If a woman doesn't want to be taken care of by the man, she doesn't have to be. When a woman chooses her role, it's nobody's business but her own. She should have dumped you first.

Answer 6

Don't worry bro, you  will see the truth if an all out war ever surfaces and you see how many men die for the life we protect vice how many others, which will remain nameless, stay here and take care of kids and bake cookies.

Answer 7

Your girlfriend needs a REAL MAN!!!! Your question on what is so great about women acting like men and taking on thaditional bread winner role? Good question, why is it so great that us, women, are acting like men, can you guess? To be equal!!!! It's not fair that women have to follow men. Men are the ones who made rules, laws, causes crimes to go up, etc. While women clean, cook, care for their family because they love them. You think Feminism suck, I think you need to realized that women are the ones who give birth to children and have hope and love of their children will suceed into this world. Women are the reason why we are here today!!!!  

Answer 8

Umm...you do know it's a man that writes "Everybody Loves Raymond," right?

Answer 9

You just sound bitter and easily intimidated.

It sounds you have an inferiority complex and need to express dominance in a relationship to balance that out.

In any case, you are sad and no woman will ever agree to become "your girlfriend/wife" if you continue to act as you are acting.  

Answer 10

I thought you were a psycho when I first started reading your post, then I was sure of it when I got to the part about "White Europe."

Kindly go crawl back under the slimy rock whence you came. You are beneath our notice.

Answer 11

You are not a real man, nothing but a boy. Please. You disgust me. What century do you live in? Thanks to feminism most here do not think like this and no that there role is not only to help take the lead, but also not be in just some stupid supportive role. I'm happy your girlfriend got away. Listen, men and women are different but equal. Women deserve to take the lead and be equal with you, not be your supportive housewife while you adventure into life. Learn this.

I agree with Patios and Tracey.

Answer 12

I'm pretty sure your girlfriend dumped you, not the other way around.  And it will happen again and again and again.  Why bother?  If you need a servant, try the yellow pages.  Look under "Servant - White".