Do most girls really like guys with experience?

Question

I've been looking around and it seems like most girls wouldn't settle for a guy if he has no experience of relationships or is a virgin. Sounds like of silly reason not to date someone, to me.

Is this day of time, do most girls really like guys who had past experience of relationships or otherwise? Do most girls really despise virgins?

Answer 1

I would say no.  I don't think that experience has anything to do with a girl wanting to date you.  How would the girl know how much experience you have before they decide to date you unless you are telling them.  

Personally, I would have loved it if my husband and I were never with someone else before we met.  

Answer 2

I agree with you, I just want a nice guy.

Answer 3

Well i'm silly and I would love to have a virgin (just like me)

It's not "special" if ur a virgin and he's not

Answer 4

all i want is a nice guy but it would be great if a guy i went out with was virgin just like me so we could show our love in different ways then just s*x

Answer 5

Of course not...me personally I really like guys who haven't lost their V card yet it tells me that,they don't just think about getting in the bed wit somebody all the time.But how can anyone say that someones actually good in bed in the 1st place it's about personal desire...everyones diffrent.lol

Answer 6

i would much rather date a virgin. It makes me feel that he is responsible and respectful towards women.. it also makes me feel like he does not take these important decisions lightly.  

Answer 7

No, because guys with experience = male wh-res, so possible STDs, etc.

Guys who are clean are better.

Answer 8

I'd date a virgin but I'd prefer someone "experienced". I don't know. Being a virgin just seems so unmanly.

Answer 9

I don't care about guys with sexual experience or who've been in other relationships, I just care about life experiences and if he's a nice guy :)

Answer 10

honestly girls these days are stupid( my opinion ) don;t worry if you have no experience, some girls do and those are the girls who end up pregnant at the age of 13-16.

i dont I'd rather someone who id unexperianced so that we could do different freaky tings that the experianced ones wouldn;t do...lol

good things come to those who wait!  always remember.

good luck!

Answer 11

i would actually like to be a guys first g/f. and i dont know how i would feel if he wasnt a virgin. if he had slept w/ alot of girls and had alot of girlfriends, i would be worried that he was trying to use me.

Answer 12

i dont mind guys who dont have experiance coz u can guide dem through it.

Answer 13

yes but it doesn't matter if you don't have experience

Answer 14

I honestly don't care. I wouldn't be put of someone because they are a virgin or not.

The only thing is, i am not a virgin, so i think i would feel uncomfortable taking someones virginity. Also i am not very experienced, so the s*x might not be great at first, but i do not despise them at all!!

I haven't been in a serious relationship either, so lack of relationships doesn't put me of at all, neither dus lots or relationships!!

So really it just depends on the guy, and whether you are compatible together and comfortable to discuss things. Also as long as someones experience (or lack of!) does not make the other person uncomfortable!

Hope i helped you =D xx

Answer 15

i definitely don't despise virgins and i am rather proud of those who wait but i hate man whores cuz it means they have no respect for women and just seem them as someone from whom to get s*x from.

Answer 16

No, I would much rather date a guy who is a virgin then who is not, seeing as I am saving myself for marriage. I think it is much more attractive if a man can save himself for the right woman, it shows self control and then you will know the man is truly dedicated to you.

Answer 17

I dont care if you're a virgin or not and I dont really care if you have no past experience with relationships. If you're a smart, tall, charming, gentleman, and funny. I would totally date you and you we could make the lreationship worka nd take baby steps! Don't worry, those girls are really stuck up if they dont date you cuz you're a birgin. You'll meet the right girl for you!

EDIT: Yeah I just think that you're looking in wrong places, well good luck!

Answer 18

I dont like guys with past experience, personally. I'm almost 16 and if a guy has loads of past experience, i would not date him. At this age, as well as any age really, its obnoxious to sleep around. I've chosen to wait until after i'm married to have s*x, and if a guy has previous experience, it worries me that he will try to force me into something which goes against my morals. I also worry that he would dump me because of my choice to abstain. So no, not all girls hate virgins. I like them better.

=)

Answer 19

no of course it dosn't matter.

Answer 20

Honestly I'm not going to lie I would want a guy with more experience than me so he knows what he's doing.

And when I mean experience I don't mean I like a guy who sleeps with every single girl.

But I think it would be really cute If I had a boyfriend and he was a virgin and he lost it to me, It would make it so much more special.

Answer 21

I think girls are looking for someone that has some knowledge of what there doing.

Answer 22

I like guys with lesser experience.

Then i don't feel overpowered.

but he has to of at least made out before.  

Answer 23

Hecks no! Girls really like virgins, Well Virgins love virgins but if you get with an experienced girl shes gonna look at you as a challenge and try to take your V card.. If your ready go with a non Virgin and if girls keep saying they dont like virgins DON't tell them to you guys go out so they wont look at you as a child i think its good  your still one but getting with a non Virgin you probably wont be one for much longer.. So think.. lol

Answer 24

I wouldn't like a guy that WASN'T a virgin, just like me. I mean, gosh, If he isn't, he better show up with some paper that prove he's been tested for std's. I know. A little over the edge.. but I was brought up in a christian household, where keeping your legs closed and waiting for 'the one' is everything.

Answer 25

I don't mind :)