Do most girls try to manipulate their guys?

Question

I've heard from some guys that the girls they were with were trying to be manipulative. I've heard that some girls do what to do to keep their man such as pulling "I'm pregnant", or she'll threaten to make false accusations of rape, or try to get pregnant to trap him. Which is why I don't trust women to well and I avoid relationships because of this.

Are more girls and young women being manipulative these days just so they can keep a man? What's going on with young women these days?

Answer 1

not everyone is like that,and the ones that are, are just stupid and bratty.

Answer 2

Its more of emotional damage, but I would believe the girl if she said she was pregnant. And usually they just don't bring up being raped if they weren't of some sort, even when she says no, it means no. But if I were you, I would avoid relationships as well because if this has happened to you, you have had to have done something to her that has hurt her, loving relationships don't end up like that. Trust me, I was pregnant- miscarried and wanted a baby so bad because even though that first one was a mistake, I learned to love it and so I am now pregnant in my second trimester and I'm not even too sure the dad knows because instead of lying, I told him the truth and that was pretty much the last time we talked.

I realize I was an idiot, and he is not responsible for the pregnancy, so I'm dealing with it and I don't expect him to do one thing. It's hard being single and pregnant but honestly, its easier than when I was with him and I was, because he wasn't a good boyfriend.

Answer 3

Girls are b*****s. I'm a girl, and I admit it.

It's a shame the only girls you have been around have been like this. We are not all like that, I promise. :)

Answer 4

Women or should I say girls who would do this are trash. You need to learn what a classy young woman looks and acts like so you are not vulnerable to trashy, manipulative girls. Firstly, classy girls use proper grammar for the most part, or at least know how to use it. Second, classy girls will dress to accent their best features, but will not dress like mini-s***s. Lastly, classy girls will not fight another girl for your affections. If your object of affection embody these traits, she will most likely not try to manipulate you because she has enough self- confidence to believe that she is worth your time without having to manipulate you.

Answer 5

I don't know about the sort of women you hang around, but maybe you need to find a different crowd... I can say as a female that any woman who does the sort of things you describe is despicable.  Only a small number of women do that sort of thing,.  Unfortunately, it reflects on all of us.

You can avoid that by just paying attention while you're building a relationship with a woman - just keep an eye out for manipulativeness, passive-aggressiveness, etcetera.  

Any woman who would go to those lengths to "keep" a man isn't the sort of woman you want to be with - you "keep" objects, not people.  Build relationships with a women who treats you like a human being, and make sure to practice safe s*x.

Answer 6

Thats awful! AND they're ruining my chances!!! Hmph!

Answer 7

Immature ones do.  It is never good for anyone to play games or manipulate a relationship.  If you do it is not an honest one and it won't last.  You need honesty and trust in a relationship to make it work.

I see a lot of wonderful young women out there..and a lot of horrible ones with no manners and no respect for anyone.  I do believe after working with parents at Juvenile court that most of it is learned behavior because they don't have role models that are good for them.  They learn to manipulate people and the system and know how to get the most of nothing and if they don't...you will hear them screaming until they do.

I do see a lot of wonderful women out there though.  A lot of decent girls and women who might make mistakes due to lack of experience and insight...and that is how we grow.  We all make mistakes now and then....and we all try to get our ways now and then.  If you are honest...EVEN YOU DO occasionally.

If you are finding the wrong women...you are in the wrong places.  You can't get steak in a hamburger joint.  So join a church or groups where you will meet people of like values and morals and you will find what you are looking for!

Answer 8

well thats how some girls/women are, and i dont understand why either. i would never do that to my bf or any guy.

Answer 9

This kind of manipulation has been around forever. Luckily, men have their own bag of tricks, now don't they? : )

The best thing you can do to avoid that drama is to be an honest, kind person, and hang out with like-minded people.

Answer 10

I'm a girl and i hate girls that do that.

It's so ridiculous and just makes them look so bitchy and immiture.