Do most guys feel they have to spend money on a girl he interested in to get to know her or have s*x with her?

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Do most guys feel they have to spend money on a girl he's interested in, to get to know her or have s*x with her (non-prostitute women by the way) ? I think so. But why ?

Answer 1

h**l yeah. they wanna play? they gotta pay!

Answer 2

It seems like a lot of men do feel this way.  I am not sure why, perhaps personal experience and/or preconceived notions.  

Answer 3

Well think about it, a woman can sleep with you and get nothing out of it except for a few minutes of awkwardness and the dreaded possibility of pregnancy...

Or she can have all these things along with something she actually wants!

Answer 4

Yeah, regrettably so (but it's region-dependent).  The reason is rather straight forward.  It's just the easiest way to have many hot girls to have s*x in a relatively short period of time.

Answer 5

most men do feel this way but the women still will make the decision on whether to accept or not. But hey its a start.

Answer 6

Honestly, when I was dating, I was looking more for someone who knew how to have a good time without spending a lot of money.  By the time I met my husband (and neither one of us had/has a lot of money), I was more than happy going on a walk in the park or going fishing or something.   And we didn't "put out" until our wedding night.

The guy who just wanted to meet for coffee... I thought he was both lame and cheap, BTW.

Answer 7

I do think a lot of men get the impression that that is true, when really it's often false. If a woman is interested in you money shouldn't/wouldn't be what gets her into to bed with you, or what makes you more appealing to her; otherwise she's just taking advantage of you.

I personally enjoy having a good time without the use of either s*x spending a lot of money, and many other women do too. Simple things like cuddling with each other under a blanket at night while gazing at the stars, or taking a stroll outside are lovely and more creative than the typical "dinner and a movie".

Answer 8

Sweety, you asked this same question time after time. No...a handful of wildflowers is much more romantic than expensive roses. A candy bar is a better gift than an expensive meal if it's not expected. A night cuddling watching a dvd is lots better than sitting in a dark theater with a crowd of people. All you need do is be really interested, talk to her as a person, be fun and have a good attitude and you are "in like Flynn" (old expression, I never did understand).

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Same thing I told my boys and my daughter

Answer 9

It does seem this way, I myself just went through a few dates like that, and i was very upset with each and everyone, for giving me anything, It only makes a girl or woman feel obligated., and that is not right. Anyway, i did not have anymore dates with the guys i was talking about, And i feel good for not excepting them, This is only my opinion.

Answer 10

Sure, at least a couple of bux.