This is a philosophical question more than anything else.
My fiance and I are in our mid-30s and marrying for the first time. Over the years that we've been dating, I've attend a number of bridal showers and weddings for some of his other younger relatives quite happily and always found them to be pleasant people.
Now as we're getting closer to our RSVP deadline, I'm starting to notice that a large number of these same younger family members are declining invitations to attend our wedding. We're having a traditional wedding with evening reception that includes food/drinks/dancing/etc, so I'm surprised that these kids don't want to attend. If nothing else it's an evening of free entertainment! They seemed to enjoy their own events quite a bit and ours is very similar.
Their mothers and I communicate fairly often and I'm tempted to ask them about their children's responses. I probably won't, but if the mothers bring it up, then I would be curious to get their views.
What do you ladies and gentlemen think?
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