Do most people marry the person after the rebound girl?

Question

I dated a guy going through a divorce for 1 year....I am pretty sure I was his rebound. He was emotionally detached but I was hoping that when he came out of his haze he would be there for me....I put our relationship on hold till he could complete the divorce as it was an emotional drain to me. He went out and found another lady whom he is there for all the time....He got engaged to her 2 months after our split and spent everyday with her, purchased a house with her, and finished his divorce. He recently got married 6 months after his divorce... All of this in the past year. Was I just the rebound girl?

Answer 1

It doesn't always have to be about the rebound. Maybe he wasn't ready with you yet, and when he was, you just weren't what he wanted. I would rather find out b4 marriage then have him marry me, and realize i wasn't it.

Answer 2

You were the rebound girl, or the psycho girl, or the cute little filler girl, or the too good for him girl, or the not good enough to marry girl, or the too demanding girl, or the not challenging enough girl, or the too easy girl........  Why do you still care?  He made his choice, go find someone who is there for you.

I'm sorry.....I know it hurts.  But, that will fade.  Be fair with yourself and don't let that get you down for too long.  As bad as it feels right now, there is someone out there that will love you the way you deserve to be loved.  Good luck to you.......

Answer 3

Probably.. I had like 30 rebounds after my divorce.

Answer 4

You know the answer. Rebound or not rebound, he didn't have serious feelings for you and wasn't that into you.

Answer 5

It looks like you were a rebound recipient, yet I would count yourself lucky.  Do you really want to be with such a winner?  He's going to have problems with this new lady.  He doesn't even know her yet.

Why are you even thinking of him though?  He's married.  It's all over now.  Just leave him alone.

Answer 6

sorry but yes you were  

Answer 7

I guess u probably were.

Answer 8

My ex married his rebound girl.  They aren't happily married either.

Answer 9

yes u were