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Do my husband loves me or not, what is he up to?

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My husband is in love with another women, I read all of their text messages and they text all day everyday. Dam near every text he sends her, he's telling her how much he love her. One text message he sent her said I want to settle down with you but I don't want a hostage. What does all this mean, I'm panicking and don't know what to do?

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it's not a big deal...most of us have girlfriends on the side anyways
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You need to tell him you read the texts and he needs to choose you or her. Obviously, he's been cheating, if you can forgive, thats your best option. Otherwise, go ahead and get out before it is harder to leave!
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drain the bank account hit him in the balls and go find someone who wil love you
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go have s*x with his best friend and see how he feels!

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This a joke right? I suggest you read your own post and answer it like you were giving advice to another person...
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Bring it up front, ask him to make choice. If he still love you, he will willing to end, but if he don't love you, at least you know and should not continue to waste your time on him. Move on found someone who will love you and txt msg you whole day tell you how much he love you.
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girl talk to him. see my boyfriend does things like this but really he doesn't mean any of it because i know if i leave him he will not make it through it once again but he likes to use people to help him get what he needs, but you have to be honest if he really wants to be with this chick than let him know that he has to move on with his life because you can't take the pain of being cheated on or him being with you when really he wants to be with some one else.
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If he loved you he would be 100% committed to you which he isn't.

You just said yourself he is in love with another woman so there is no way he is in love with you. He may love you for security reasons but not in love with you to be faithful and respect you the way you should be.

Basically, he is up to no good and playing you for a fool.
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omg leave him u idiot. find a good man and let them have eachother. why did u marry him???? HE DOESNT LOVE YOU
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