Do only less-attractive women like 'nice guys'?

Question

It seems to me whenever I hear a women saying she wants a nice guy (and really means it) she's either unattractive, overweight or over the hill. I don't hear a great degree of model-quality women complaining about men not being nice-- they seem to always compain about men being 'too nice' or stalking them or obsessing over them, etc. Has anyone else experienced this? I think that women want what the can't have, and since less-attractive women are more likely do get treated like sh*t by men, then that's why they say it. Likewise, a girl under 27 who's an 8 1/2 or better is always being inundated by guys offering to do things for her and being kind to her.

Answer 1

Typically the way it works is that chicks will date and bone the "bad boy" type ,while using the nice guys.

They will continue to do so  right up to the point they are about to reach their expiration date , you know high mileage.

At that point they will marry a nice guy so she can use him with security and bone what ever bad boys she can bag on the side.

So the moral to the story is that if you want to date and bone ,stay towards the bad boy side, if you are looking to marry a babe that's near retirement be a nice guy.

Answer 2

the nice guy sticks around to support the "bad" guys kids.

if you are what think is bad you will notice that your friends wives will flirt and bend over to try to expose their b*****s and so on.

i was at a party and a girl was asking my friend about me, my friend was just joking around a said to stay away as i was "a very bad man". haha hes always joking.

so anyway, this girl chased me for a while. point is, its better to be percieved as bad, unless you want to be f***** over.

Answer 3

I'm atytractive and I do. Maye you are talking about the preened and primped girls who are obsessed with looks and see a bf as an accessory.

Answer 4

I guess I'm considered "over the hill" but I'm not looking for a "nice guy" either. It happens to be that I'm  married but even if I were single, I still wouldn't be looking. Some men can't seem to get it through their heads that just because a woman is single, it must mean she is unattractive.

By the way, most "model quality" women are much less attractive in person. They look good because they have the top makeup artists working on them and they are further enhanced by lighting and flattering clothes.

Answer 5

Am I attractive?

Then I have full rights to answer this question. I like nice guys. I notice their gestures before their features. I would marry a guy if he was ugly, but only if he was nice. He would have to respect me, my future, my past, and my present.

Answer 6

I think a woman's ability to attract a quality man does have a bit to do with their attractiveness...as does a man's.  You simply have more choices when you are physically attractive because you attract more people.  However beyond the initial attraction it is all up to the woman who she chooses.  Most women have a radar for jerks...some do not.  I think this all has to do with confidence in relationships which is a result of one's past as well as the relationship of their mother and father.

Answer 7

In the Anglosphere, this is generally true if, by less attractive women, you mean thirtysomething single moms who aren't exactly MILF caliber.

If you're not willing to settle for that, either quit being nice or consider foreign women.

Answer 8

Being overweight or even underweight does not automatically make someone unattractive, but there's that SHALLOW attitude out there that turns off any woman.  THAT'S what turns off the women that you cannot get. If a guy can broaden his selections about what makes a human being attractive, he might discover a lot more about beautiful women - and about himself.  He might discover that society has brainwashed him into his tastes for what he deems s**y or attractive.  Women are not turned-on by this, but they love someone who's not shallow and gets to know a woman before judging her all on just her looks.  I know someone obese with a really hot wife.  Her spouse is really GOOD to her, (no money) and they have a great s*x life.  They are a faithful couple.  Some people don't care if you have a hard body or a movie star face.