Do people actually care if someone has acne?

Question

i have acne, and usually the guys seem to care, hardly ever the girls..

why? i don't really think it matters what someone's face looks like.

Answer 1

I don't think people really care.

Some guys are really shallow, though.

To me, it's just a matter of taking care of yourself.

Some people have acne simply because of bad hygiene, believe it or not.

But some people can't control it.

I myself have breakouts at times, and I stress over it a lot. When I tell my friends how much my zit is bothering me, they tell me that they didn't even notice my zit until I pointed it out.

So what I'm trying to say is that when we see ourselves in the mirror the features we dislike about ourselves are far more exaggerated than what people actually see. Because we focus on the negative things about ourselves rather than the positive.

You just have to have confidence. I know for a fact that guys love a confident, easy going girl. If you have thoses qualities the rest will come. I know plenty of girls with acne who have loving boyfriends.

Answer 2

Maybe it's because the girls are more used to having acne and guys aren't? But true, it doesn't matter what someones face looks like. It's all about attitude and personality ;)  

Answer 3

Well, you really already have your answer:  People looking for only friends normally don't care.  People looking for romantic interests or a relationship do take someone's appearance into consideration -- a person's hair, their size, their eyes, and their skin.  It's all part of the presentation.  Unfortunately, it's not entirely the "beauty on the inside" that counts.

So, get an effective regimen going for you -- or see a dermatologist.  Your acne is obviously effecting your life, so don't let it.  Acne can also affect you professionally in your career if it persists into your adult years (but it normally doesn't for most people, thankfully).  

Answer 4

if they do they are dooches

Answer 5

i've had bad acne before and yeah i think guys care.  I dont think they really care much if you just have a few small pimples though.  Take Accutane or Spironolactone .  Both will clear up your skin.