Do people assume that your motives are selfish?

Question

..when they are not?

Example: Wanting to help someone out, but they think you want something instead?

Answer 1

Yes, stupid people think that way, the majority of people are stupid, therefore the majority will think your actions are selfish if they come off that way, when in reality you could be the total opposite and be the most humble person out there.

Answer 2

ultimately, all motives are selfish.

Answer 3

I know when I'm in a bad mood that is the conclusion I jump to.  When I am in a good mood, however, I am more likely to give people a better assumption.  The good people in the world always do the latter, don't they?

Answer 4

all are selfish.

Answer 5

some people do. this makes them the selfish ones of course.

Sometimes people are insecure as they have been used and abused by someone trying to 'help' before.

Dont let this discourage you. Keep helping. its the best feeling in the world knowing you made a difference in someones life