Do people come in your life for a reason?

Question

well obviously to grow and learn...but .lets say you're a BIG fat liar.. and you just can't help bu do the things you do... and then came along someone who you connect with... after getting to know them for a while you eventually have this deep strong emotional connection with them.. you told them lies here and there.. but never meant to hurt them. buut if u didn't u would tell them in the first place right?again, lets just say you just can't help but do the things you do... no one will understand, and you just like the feeling of doing it.. ssometimes things are just better left unsaid.. and you just can't tell them.. you're afraid that everything might change.... does it depends on the situation?.. can you just really just go and tell them the truth? i know some people will prolly say go tell them the truth.. but maybe the situation is worser than it sound?

Answer 1

Everything happens for a reason, people we meet, things we do, whatever, it all shapes us. As for the lies, isn't easier to keep track of the truth. Can't say that this person won't be angry that you lied, or even that they will forgive you, but maybe thats the lesson they are here to teach you. In the future maybe you need to remember that its a lot easier to be honest, its easier to remember the truth and the burden is appreciably less.

Answer 2

There's a thing called diplomacy. When you can't tell people the truth, don't say anything, or say something neutral. Try to listen better, learn from wiser people, don't rush your words, so you can learn what the best thing to say, and the best way to tell the truth without hurting people. You don't have to lie to be nice.

Answer 3

Depends on the lie and if it hurting some one.

Also with lies, as you know, you gotta think long term to see if it is going to come back and bite you one day.  My mother has a saying "one lie leads to ten more" so be aware the more you lie the more your future will be like a house of cards.  When one falls everything will go.

  Sooner or later , lies have a habit of slipping out whether you like it or not and its much worse to be found out then owning up.

Answer 4

I feel everyone comes into your life for a reason. Good and bad people. Every time Ive met someone I've learned something from that person.