...adopting a newborn vs. a child from foster care? Children in foster care have parents who are unable to parent their child for a variety of reasons (in my area, most often due to drug addiction). Do you believe that these children need stable, loving, permanent homes? If not, what option do you see for them?
Adopting a newborn most often occurs b/c a mother feels unprepared to be a mother - whether due to her financial situation, her age, the family support available to her (or not). With proper support, she may be able to mother her own child. It should be her choice, but not one made under duress or out of fear. Yes?
What are your thoughts? Is adoption of a child from foster care (or those orphaned) different than adopting a newborn? Also, was adoption 'different' 40+ years ago than it is today? Open vs. sealed? Fewer newborns available with the stigma of being unwed minimized & women choosing to keep their child?
Do these factors influence your opinions? If so, how?
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