Do people really want me to go away...or just?

Question

to break my neck chasing them around? I sort of think of myself as the ego booster b/c ppl know I'll do it, but I've changed and they haven't contacted me. I don't smother ppl. I rarely contact anyone b/c I'm really quiet & reserved but when I do, I have to put up with a lot of stuff to see ppl or talk to them. What do you think?

Answer 1

It sounds like you could do with meeting a few new people who will appreciate you. People often get so caught up in their own lives they forget about others especially if they're quiet.

So many of the people I know don't bother getting in touch with me until they need something like money. When I was younger I used to put up with this but now I'm older I've learned to only have people around me who appreciate when I do nice things for them and don't mind helping me in return.  

Answer 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n9sEBBCIZ...

Answer 3

if they wanna be around they'll come around.  i'd worry about meeting new people, then you wont be so concerned with the old.  

Answer 4

They dont want you top go away!  

Answer 5

I don't think people want you to go away, it's just, you don't have to be an ego booster if you don't want, just be a little more open, they might think you're shy.

Answer 6

they dont want you to go away

Answer 7

That's tough to answer not knowing the circumstances.  Perhaps you should find a hobby or volunteer in a setting where you would meet others with the same interests as you.