Do second chances ever really work?

Question

my parents[theyre like 50 now?]

constantly fight.

they come to me gossiping about the other.

i hate them both.

i hate my life.

ive tried commiting suicide.

but the stupid blade didnt go deep enough.

they were seperated a year before i was born.

but then they got back together for my brother and sister's sake.

they were 14 and 12 at the time.

now im 14.

and my parents almost got divorced in may.

but then they decided not to.

but ive never told anyone this, i feel like everyone would be happier if they were divorced.

someone please help me!

Answer 1

Do whatever you can to get away from them, not run away. But try to spend nights over ar friends and  other family members houses.

Answer 2

So, they had you at 14 and 12, and now your 14, and they are 50? I think somebody's math is a little bit off, and your fishing for attention is quite immature.

Answer 3

sounds like they would be.  they need to make some serious decisions because it's not healthy for anyone in your family.

Answer 4

you are too young and are NOT responsible for what is goin on between them. its not your business or concern and your parents need to know that. If they dont you need to tell thme you dont want to get involved. Its not fair to you as they are both equal in your eyes. Be firm and dont listen to gossip. you can only get the gossip if you enable it and listen to it. So DONT. You have lots of things in your life to look forward to, concentrate on school, getting an education, hang out with good friends.......

Answer 5

Sounds hard. I know talking doesn't work.

like stay with a friend or an aunt or something.

just get away from it.

its best.

Answer 6

You only need tolerate them a bit longer. Mind your own business and prepare yourself to live on your own. You'll be much happier. You can emancipate yourself from your parents at 15 or 16 I think. Just make sure you have a job so that you can support yourself. Find ways to stay away from your house as much as possible and be with friends, if you don't have any make some you'll feel better.