Do shy guys ask girls out?

Question

how does he do it, like ask her or ,asking her but not straight out but more like talking about other topics that lead to ' i wanna go out with you' but in different words.

if that makes sense.

and when does he do it?

do they ask girls out or what?

Answer 1

I guess you have a friend who you would like to go out with but he never invites to go out. Honey, YES, Maybe he is SHY, but I assume you are also SHY. if not. Just Go to HIM, and Say: Let's go out with me!

Good Luck!

Answer 2

Yes, shy guys ask girls out. And if the girl says yes, he goes and either throws up in joy, or hurts himself in disbelief. If she says no, he goes and becomes g*y.

Sensitive girls spare shy guys these after-effects by (sweetly) interrupting him with something like: "Will you go with me to----?" or " I'll catch you later, okay? I have to meet my boyfriend in 2 minutes? Don't go anywhere, because if he dumps me, I'll be looking for you. Okay?"

Answer 3

Yes,sounds familiar. Was really shy myself. Perhaps he will grow out of it. Just over thinks about things.

Answer 4

I am a shy man myself and this is how I think. My answer to your question: no. I do overthink things A LOT, blow it out of proportion in a way. At the end of the day though, I don't like to risk things because I realize that means risking a relationship that I don't even have. I mean, if I really liked you and secretly wished for you to be my girlfriend, I would plan out elaborate things to really impress you. I won't work up to asking you out because I would rather be a secret admirer or be a friend than ask you out, be turned down, and have an awkward encounter each future time. I also try to act cool and just stay kind of quiet around you because I don't want to UNimpress you by saying something wrong or stupid or just plain silly.

If I really like you and I think that you are the world, I might set up something silly like a group event where it'll seem like everybody's invited when in reality, all I want is you to be there, and hopefully, then do something to impress you in a clandestine way where I hope you secretly feel the same way I do and am glad to see me there with you. Oh, and of course, everybody that is invited will know the truth except you because again, I'm too shy to risk losing you entirely than at least having you somewhere in my life where I can at least talk to you (even if we rarely see each other or talk to each other).

Hope that helps, best of luck!

Answer 5

I am not relly shy, but I am quiet sorta. And I havn't asked a girl out, I may in the future though. But atm way too scared.

Answer 6

I'm assuming you're asking because there's such a guy you want to go out with?  If that's the case I think you should just casually ask him out (no law against that, right?) he may not ask you out otherwise, or someone else might beat you to it.  

It could be fun & it might be the only way you'd get the chance to know them better.