Do shy guys lose interest easily or just become more shy?

Question

This shy guy and I have been spending time this summer and has shown signs that he's possibly interest. We would play it by ear and see each other almost every week... sometimes more than once a week. We've gotten close...

Lately, his schedule's been different and he's been working evening (graveyard hrs) now. He hasn't text as much bc i understand he's been busy and tired. (did earlier this week). I texted him today asking how work was and he said he was off and asked to go eat. When i saw him today, he said he hasn't been getting sleep and just tired. I told him about my plans for next week and ask if he would join and said (in dismay) his schedule - how he has the same schedule and how the "graveyard" thing is for 2 wks and he switches off b/c their old boss left. (which i believe).

He's usually more "outgoing" and tends to make "more moves" or is himself when we're alone. (in his room watching movies or family guy). Since we went out to eat, we were just chill.

Did he lost interest? Or maybe it was hard to have our closeness/serious talks b/c i haven't seen him in a little over a week?

Answer 1

sometime a guys waits for the girls to make the next move so ask him out

Answer 2

I don't think shy guys lose interest - they just get more frustrated at not being able to convey what they think & feel.

I do think shy guys need more space than others. I would give him the space he needs but be there for him when he does need you.

I would, however, give him clear signals that you will not be a doormat for anyone. I do hope this helps. Best wishes to you both. UK