Do the good guys always win in life? Please give examples in your life.?

Question

Do the good guys always win in life? Please give examples in your life.?

Answer 1

No. Good guys never win.

I've tried to be a gentleman to women but they played my feelings and made me have an emotional trauma.

Have a look at this question on what happened last year's Valentine's:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

I always treated her with high-respect and help her whenever she is in need of help... but what happened in the end?

Even if love isn't the case, people out there will take advantage of your good-points.

For example, if you're a kind person, people will ALWAYS think of you first when they need help.  Soon to come, it becomes a habit and if you decline to help, they will backmouth your back very badly.

For me, I'm a person with patience.  My "friend" to take it as an advantage by making me wait for them for long-hours.  I removed him from my contact-list soon-after since he didn't even want to improve on that.  If he doesn't bother, why should I?

UNLESS, if you mix only with "good people" but it's very hard to find these adays.

All I can say is this:

Good guys lose out first with humiliation.  Bad guys die later with drastic consequences, they guilt haunts them.

But seriously, despite all the stated horrible things that good guys get in the end, I still recommend you to be morally-upright or a good person in life.  That's how you earn respect from some people (which I did despite all the horrible things I received).  And when you succeed in life, you will have recognition.  If you found out people is taking advantage of you, just remove him/her from your contact-list, that's what I do.  Learn to bite back sometimes, don't let people step over you.

One last tip: birds of the same feathers flock together.  Whom you mix with in life determines your future.  If you mix with a gangster, you soon will be.  If you mix with upright-people, you soon will be, too.  So it's important to find the right kind of people in life.  Perhaps I didn't ,that's why I received all the horrible things.

That's why people whom just succeed in life turns their back on people sometimes - he/she wants revenge or just want to cut-contact from people whom ill-treated him/her.

Keep only the best, cleanse the unwanted and worthless.

My friend, learn to judge things.  Never regret if you did something that is worth doing.  Apologize if you need to.  Put yourself in the person's shoes sometimes and ask why did he/she do it then find ways to help him/her, if he/she doesn't improve, ignore him/her.

Answer 2

I have the best example, probably the greatest guy, most normal and stabe and everything a woman could possibly need, is NOT someone anyone goes for? He's a GREAT guy? Why doesn't anybody like him? It's because he's good. He's a pushover, he is boring and isn't that bad guy that all the girls fawn over.

It's what women need, but not what they want.

Answer 3

Heavens NO!