Do think this is rude...?

Question

my "friend" posts a picture on her myspace of me drunk without pants on (my shirt covers my underwear but still..). do you think this is rude? she didn't ask me if it was fine, i came across it later (i don't have a myspace). am i overreacting?

Answer 1

You were correct by saying  my "friend" in parenthesis.  She wasn't your friend if she put a picture of you in such a compromising position without your permission.  I would immediately "demand" she remove the picture if she won't you can "report" her to MySpace even if you don't have an account because what she did is against the rules.

You are not overreacting, in fact I think you are handling it quite well.  Demand the photo be removed NOW, you deserve more respect than she ever even "thought" of giving you.  Choose your "friends" more wisely in the future!!  Good Luck!!

Peace & Love :)

Answer 2

she is extremley rude especially knowing you don't have a myspace and may never see it. you can sign up for a myspace and report the pic if she won't take it down. your friend sounds very immature

Answer 3

heck yes.. that plain rude..

just tell her to take it off.. or get your own myspace and report it =p

Answer 4

OMG NO!!! your "under-reacting" that is something that friends just dont do to one another. NOT COOL!!! shes not worthy to be your friend if she does something so unreasonable. Espeaically that she didn't have your permission!!!

Answer 5

uh no!

she shouldnt post pictures of you or anyone for that matter without telling them. what if you hadn't found out? and losts of creeps are on myspace anyway they probably print them out and have them on thier walls. besides it makes you look like a drunken w***e. which im sure your not. i think you should just tell her not to post pictures like that because they make you look bad. expecially since you dont even have a myspace!

--jazzie

Answer 6

You're not overreacting. It is rude and you should ask her to remove it because it's not a nice picture of you to begin with and it's inappropriate.

Answer 7

humm...that is rude.

Answer 8

I think that was very rude and unfeeling.  I would ask her to remove my picture immediately and tell her that you don't appreciate her doing that.  I would also freeze her out for a while too.  Some friend........

Answer 9

well, perhaps.

But reality check, don't put yourself in that postition in the first place if you don't want people to see you that way.

Answer 10

it was rude- would she put a photo of her on like that

Answer 11

It is rude.  I would ask her to take it down.