Do u believe in this... ?

Question

......that some days r just really bad.. everything seems to go wrong one after the other.. and u r in a helpless position to correct any of it , ultimately left to just look at the entire day becoming a complete mess !

.. i just had such a day..

Pls share ur views ?

Answer 1

Dear Madhavi,

I do agree some days are bad. In fact even some years are bad for few. These are dependent on the planetary positions and the navagraha which is acting on you at this age. It depends on person to person. During these times, whatsoever you do might go wrong.

However a good deed and deep faith in god can change this. You need to be more optimistic and determined. You should not give up to that day. You should win against that day but doing something great or any positive thing.

Everything is in our hand. God has given us great powers and strength. It lies within our thoughts. What you cannot do is nothing in this world. Believe in that, then you will realize that every day is good.

Always imagine that every thing happens for good. Even if you are not able to do something (successfully) on a particular day, imagine that something worst could have happened and god avoided it.

Some years I see that they are not good for my progress. I use those years to learn more spirituality or do some learning.

Every day, every minute and every second is mine. I had to decide what I want to do with it. What I do might some time fail but that should not stop me what I want to do in life.

I will not think of a bad day or a bad year, while I am doing my work. I will put all my efforts, if doesn’t succeed, even then I will think that it is for something good only.

Every experience including a bad experience is always giving wisdom in life.

With love

Gentleman

Answer 2

I believe we all have good days and bad days...But it is how we deal with them that makes the big difference..

If I am having a bad day...I can either dwell on it and be miserable and help things get worse or I can make the best of it and try to improve it with thinking of things I like and try to change it..

If I am in traffic and running late...I start out being upset and frustrated but than I start to think that maybe this is happening for a reason and It is maybe helping me from being somewhere that might be worse Like in an accident etc...and than I think of all the people that have it worse than I do....for example ...there are so many people that do not even own a car or have good enough health to even be out in the traffic...

Than I usually calm down and be thankful for what I have and Not upset with the things I don't..It really really helps me out when I do that...I turn my bad days into good days alot more by really thinking about possitive things..

Try it,,,It can help if you really do it with thought and think possitive...

Have a great day and enjoy it ...Enjoy the little things,,take time to smell the flowers ...sometimes just smiling for no reason at all can actually make you feel better...Sometimes others see that smile and they smile back and it gets contagious...

Life is way to short to take it too seriously!!!!!

Answer 3

Oh, yes.

After having tons of days like that I realized that the only reason it just gets worse is because we keep thinking that it's so bad and not trying to think positive.. I find that my days are a little better now :)

Answer 4

yes.. if a day starts out bad or wrong.. your whole day will follow right behind ya,

Answer 5

Well, just by the fact that you are sharing your day and trying to make sense of it, goes to prove that you are not helpless.

Events seem to collide together to create a "perfect storm" but often times, we are just taking more notice of the chaos of normal life when we realize that our own lives are in chaos.

I have never been in a helpless or hopeless position in my life; not while in combat, not while in the hospital, not in relationships.  What makes a situation helpless is not asking for or seeking help.  What makes a situatio hopeless is not trying and allowing one's self to sink into the quagmire of hopelessness.

In fact, some of the darkest times of my life have resulted in me learning quite a lot about myself and the humans around me.  I tend to pick a whole lot better crowd of people to hang around with now.

That is just the way I look at life.  No real quotes from dead or living philosophers.  Just me doing my every day thing.

I hope that helps...

Answer 6

yup....some days really turn to be bad and the most unpleasant experiences of your life........

infact nowadays....my days are going that way.....the more i try to feel happy....the more i persuade myself to see things positively..the more upset i am............family...school....etc..et... ..and to top it all..my health.....it seems i am all messed up...and i need a break.....a break. off this cruel world!...i want to spend some time with me...just me!

but then days come and go......when i am\ going through sad days...i try my best to convince myself.....this door is closing...so what?? somewhere else the other one is opening....

when bad days are on...feel happy cuz the good ones are gonna follow them!

*stAR*

Answer 7

I do believe that I have no control over how my day will turn out.

The only thing I can control is my self. How I react to certain situations.

And often times our reaction are affected by our - physical condition, emotional condition, relationship and even our spiritual condition.

Answer 8

There's a popular saying:

Jab kismat kharab ho to Oont (Camel) per bhi baithe to Kutta (Dog) kaat ta hai.

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Yes it happens, when you had a bad day, everything goes against you, but the world is not going to end there, just keep that day behind and start a new day with positive mind.

Answer 9

yes it happens many times in ur life wen ur day is horrible n eveything going against ur wish.......

bt i strongly believe wat eve may happen nvr loose ur hope..................

Answer 10

i do cuz im having one right now..

Answer 11

There could have been in my past but now I try to think good thoughts for the day everyday & it seems to attract good vibrations coming my way.  Think positive thoughts & positive actions will come your way.  All is well.

Answer 12

Everyone has a bad day. Look at me, I'm only 15 years old, and I haven't had bad days, I've had bad years. From 4th grade to 8th grade, it's been nothing but hospitals and pain. Consider yourself lucky.

Answer 13

No you can turn it around...usually ppl start having a bad day and are in that mood for the rest of thday, just change your mood.

Answer 14

yes it happened to me on last saturday...but i explained evrything to my frnd....i hope he/she will realize it...

Answer 15

Like they say, when it rains, it pours. But, don't worry, there is a rainbow after the storm.

Answer 16

Such days comes in life at many times so imprtant thing is to be positive & look forward to having better time :)

Answer 17

I think somedays everything seems to go wrong but I think it is better to be able to just sit back and laugh about it. I think if you approach it with a good attitude it doesnt feel so bad.

Answer 18

I don't believe with that coz it depends on how you deal or face or starts your day....Be resilient always coz that would help you a lot.

Answer 19

yes it happens. when ur luck is not with u. it has happened many times with me. the same day i would get punishment, have a comparitively bad test, lots of HW, have a fight with a friend. but after some days every thing will be alright. get praised by the same teacher, get good marks in the same test, the teacher would not come to the class whose HW u have not done, ur fight will be over.

yes i believe this but afterwards all will be right again.

Answer 20

Yes. Would fifty thousand dollars help?

Answer 21

It does happen for me too....thts so coz one may value the good times by thanking GOD for tht and praying for more of good times....!!!

Answer 22

such hopeless days occur in everyone's life.

Answer 23

it is  about the conditions of planets. you cannot do anything with this situation. you will wait for planets to change direction so your life will be easier for you.