Do u guys think he wants me to be successful in life or he's just jealous of me.?

Question

I'm 19 and i'm in college. I'm workin in a warehouse where my partner is 20 years older than me. he always say that it's a blessing to live 41 years. He try to make me beleive that the fact that he's older than me, i have to agree with everything he says. sometimes he doesn't make no sense @ all but he always try to make it look like he's right!!! He's really negative. He tells me sometimes that not everybody who goes to college get a job. ( maybe he wants me to leave college and be like him) his daugter is 19 and she just got pregnant. Some times i think why would this guy tell me all those nonsense stuff while her daugther is having s*x while he's @ work. I always tell hime that the fact that i'm 19 dosen't mean that i'll let him brainwash me!!! He's the kind of gguy who listens to what ever someone says and try to make it look like he's teaching me something. sometimes, i tell him not everybody know what they R talkin about. Please help me!! how can i make this guy happy?

Answer 1

you have asked this question many times over the last months why do you care what this jerk thinks

tell him to stuff it

and live your life

Answer 2

First of all, it's not up to you to make him happy.  You're there to do a job.  Unfortunately you're working with a man whose low self esteem creates a negative attitude, who belittles you to make himself feel superior and instead of become a mentor to you, makes everything a competition.  If you can, do your job, limit your conversation with him and get a good education.  For many people, with age, comes wisdom.  But he doesn't sound all that wise.  You won't be there forever.  Make the best of it and for the most part, ignore him if you can.

Answer 3

I think you answered your own question in your exsplanation

Answer 4

Just smile and nod your head who cares what people have to say its your life . http://first-molecule.com this will prove yourself to him . See you in the Bahamas

Answer 5

Yea right.... In any case you'll have to learn to get along with your fellow employs if you are to be a success at what you end up doing after you graduate "collage"