Do u people think is unfair?

Question

do u think ugly people are treated unfairly in terms of getting their voice heard especially in eg sch.? i asked because i had observed so many times, people who are beautiful and outgoing are those which many people support them and their voice are the loudest. For the ugly ones no matter in what situation, there seems to be like an 'invisible limit' in their communication. ok-imagine a beautiful & popular person made a lame remark but will always be able to entertain people and will laugh off very well with it, people will not think he/she is making a fool out of themselves. while for the ugly people, if their voice is a bit louder, people will stared them with cold eyes as if these people did not heard somebody talks before, and will sometime made bad cooment. And in certain situation, like occasions, those beautiful people can let out all their emotions and feeling and people will 'feel' is normal. anyway i think is unfair, ugly people seems to have limit in their activties, fun.?

Answer 1

Ugly people aren't appealing....But hey, who am I to say who is ugly right? I mean I see a lot of ugly celebrities get worshipped.

Answer 2

one thing I have learned is that beauty only gets you so far...

when I was in school it was of course all the pretty girls who seemed to get everything and had everyone surrounding them all the time worshiping them....15 years later the geeks and nerds grew into themselves and are very successful, while the ones who thought they were everything are a big nothing...just wait...

Answer 3

Yes, ugly people are treated differently from beautiful people.  People who have a facial deformity, who are overweight, who are disabled in some way, all face the challenge of overcoming people's predjudices.  

Studies with toddlers have shown that they would rather play with a good looking child that with one who is overweight or disabled.

That being said, those who are not so good looking generally have better personalities, and keep friends and supporters for a long time.  If you're not beautiful on the outside, it's harder to attract people to you, but if you're beautiful on the inside, especially if you have fairly good self esteem, more and more people will be attracted to you, and stay with you for a longer time.

Answer 4

I really understand how you feel dear.

But that is how this world has been changed into.so we have to find away of getting out by being persistence no matter what others think.

Take for example, you are still at school and that is happening, don't worry about what they think, just worry about what the teacher says, because that is what is more important at the end of the day.

work hard towards your goals and those beautiful ones will be the ones who will come a round you instead.

In short,how ever ugly or beautiful you are, you can gain that popularity if you want.How?The beautiful ones use their beauty, so let the ugly ones use their heads/brains(am sure that God is very careful,if he denies you one, he gives the other) and they will defiantly achieve their dreams.SO just take heart and spread the message.

Thanks for your concern.

Good luck.

Answer 5

It is more about charisma than ugly/pretty.  Most of the "beautiful" famous people aren't truly beautiful without their make up and airbrushing.  Underneath all that they are just as average as the rest of us, with dry and oily skin, acne, cellulite, and limp hair!   Even the pretty people we see every day would admit they hate to leave home without their make up.  Yes I admit we are more attracted to aesthetically pleasing people but the people who really control things and make the biggest splash have the right combination of moderately pleasing features and a standout personality commonly known as charisma.  They know how to work the room and attract attention.  They are who you want at your fund raiser or event they can tell stories and jokes, they know when to laugh and when to move on and when to pause and compliment someone and keep conversations going, they may not be a knock out but they will be pleasing to look at yes.  However, they very well could be "ugly" if they have that charisma and charm going to compensate and will still be quite popular.  Several comments have been made about women going for men with 6 packs and who are 6 feet tall who is all about "how do I look" and "hey babe I gotta go drink my power shake now" however look around next time you are out and see if this is really true.  And see how many men are really with the size 2 cheerleader who needs everything to center around her.  Nope usually people learn they would rather be with that charismatic charming person that lights up the room regardless of their physical shortcomings.

As for the lame remarks, it is my experience that no matter what, if you make a lame remark it is a lame remark and conversation generally stops and people are like what the...whether you are pretty or ugly.

Answer 6

I know what you mean.  I know a girl that would rather date a guy who is 6 foot with a 6 pack than a guy who is 5'8 and with a couple extra pounds but had biceps.  It annoys me, but it seems like looks are taken too seriously in America.

Answer 7

i think in base of our creature we like to see beauties rather than ugly things ,but its relative to how we define beauty,the love is beautiful even if ugly face people do it ,if you loved your lover see you beautiful,for him or her you are most beautiful one ,the thing as beauty is relative too how you see things beautiful ,in my country we have a wise "all of things also know all of people" ,it means you cant have all of goodies and beauty just with you ,the world is beautiful with all of things that are in it ,even beautiful ones that you mean are beautiful because society around them think they are beautiful ,in Africa so so fat women are most beautiful ones ,or in some ancient groups in amazon women that have long neck about 20 centimeter with huge rings around their necks are beautiful ,also may ugly face one ,has beautiful sound ,beautiful hand write ,be beautiful musician ,or paint beautiful paints and also the world look at them ,most of people those are fa mouse weren't and aren't beautiful but still world remember and know them,then you sure any way every body has part of beautiful in them even when they just kiss an orphan baby ,or helping others or showing kind to others ,all are beautiful

Answer 8

Beauty's in the eye of the beholder.  There's a lot to be said about having a good amount of self-confidence despite one's limitations, and that quality tends to ultimately overcome certain superficialities like personal appearance.

Answer 9

I can name quite a few political leaders and movie stars who are "butt ugly" and have made something out of their lives.

Maybe they have to try a bit harder.....maybe that is what drives them to be better.....and even if that is so welll that is GOOD.

At least they have got a solid basis to their character.

How many so called beautiful people are very very SHALLOW .....!! ??

Yes it is all unfair but you do the best with what you  have got !!