Do u thank the person who cooks in Ramadan?

Question

Who cooks in Ramadan? U Or your mama, wife, maid etc..??

I do cook in Ramadan and its exhausting!!

Do u say "THANK YOU" to your mama, wife or any one who cooks especially in Ramadan??

Because cooking in Ramadan demands patience and much more efforts than the Usual days.

And with all that suffering, NO one tells me Thank u SARA :'(

So do u say thank u?

Answer 1

Once married,I do all cooking..I used to thank my mother for what she did..

To be honest,I am afraid of Ramdan nearing.Lot of work,lot of dishes,lot of people to be invited for iftar parties...i ahve to do it all alone,with a small baby of 1.5 yrs old..I really wish Ramdan doesn't come..I know that it is crazy or wrong for me to say so as a muslim.But as a lady,i have to say this..Nobody compromises on reducing number of dishes..

Ah,never mind..the show must go on...

Answer 2

When I was single, yes sometimes I do thank my mum especially when she cook my favorite meal. Now that I am on my own, I cook for my hubby and little kids (my preschool gonna start fasting this year Insha Allah) and oh how I missed my mum's cooking..she passed away last year, 1st Syawal. May Allah bless her soul Amin..

n yes hubby thank me everyday..he thinks i'm the best cook ever! lol..

Answer 3

When my mother used to cook, I used to thank her, like mother, thanks for what you do for us, she smiles and is like, yes ok ok Thanks to Allah.

and now mostly I cook. infact Only I cook. so its others who appreciates me and I don't want my family and loved ones to thank me. When they love the food, and appreciate it, ALhumdulillah thats my reward ~!

Answer 4

lol, i cook in Ramadan, cos its like my mum's lil break. and i'm always saying thanks to the person who made my meal.  

and trust me, i don't even expect a thanks when i make something for my family, but u know i like to give thanks to Allah swt, and to my mum all the time

Answer 5

no.i feel a bit uneasy right now becus i never said thank u to my mum.

maybe i will do it today.

Answer 6

Of course. I say thank you always, not only in Ramadan.

Answer 7

yeh alhamdulliah i do but she doesnt appreciate everytime we have futour so i just say it now and then so she wont get used to it.. lol

Answer 8

my husband once ina while will say thank you, especially when he knows I made a special kind of dish just for him (something like bamia which he loves and the rest of us do not like).  Because he knows as I made that for him, I have to make something else for me and the girls so its a special effort.  My kids think everything food I make during Ramadan is the best food they ever ate, lol I suppose because they are hungry and appreciate the food which is good as that is one of the lessons they should learn from Ramadan.  

Answer 9

i always say thanks to my mom and do u mean uncle by mama?

Answer 10

I do way more than just say thank you to my lovely wife when she cooks for me.  She is truly a blessing from Allah.  All praise and glory be to Allah.

Answer 11

There is a masnoon dua "Allahumma ath'im man ath'amana wasqi man saqana Allahumma barik lahum fee ma razaqtahum wagfil lahum warhamhum (Oh Allah, feed those who have feeded us, give drink to those who have given us drinks. Oh, Allah give barakath to them in their rizq, forgive them and bestow mercy on them)" for those who have provided food on all occassions including Ramadan.  Allah will provide the best food and drinks to them in Paradiese, Insha Allah. This dua can be made for your cook or mother, sister, wife who have cooked food for you.  There will be no reward in the Hereafter for those telling "Thank you."

Answer 12

hi,yes i cook in ramadan because dont different with to other mouths only chang time of eat and yes my hausband and childeren tell me thank you because i cook to their like other mounth eat time .i tell you thank you sara .

Answer 13

My mummy makes the best food on earth... come over and see for yourself :P

Anyway of course we say thank you to her and then to God even though he is supposed to be first on the list... (pray)

Good Luck this Ramadan.. I can imagine how hard it is to cook.. especially on days that you feel REALLY hungry.. mmmm

Answer 14

That's right sara no one can say thanks especially in food

but you will receive a lot of comments like it was salty not well cooked and blab la..

see now i do have to cook to my self in ramadan after duties ,i always feel tired and angry .so now i can see how tired was my mum at home

seriously don't wait for a thanks from any one but god is the only one who will recognize that so keep passion and happy upcoming Ramadan  :)