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Do u think I'm doing the right thing by wanting to divorce my husband?

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the reason why I'm asking this is bcuz he's been abusing me since we've been married thats a year.we have no kids 2gether he tried to kill me in front of my 3yr.old daughter.now I'm in a dv shelter.

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  1. Kick him in the head and flee.


  2. You answered your own question sweet.  He tried to kill you in front of a precious child.  GET OUT AND STAY OUT!  No women or man deserves to be hit on.  Life is precious and too short to be putting up with that sort of c**p.  Make a better life for you and your child. Keep your chin up.  It will get easier

  3. your doin and excellent job first is your safety and your daughter safety hes just demostratin that he is a **** guy that dont care for you or your daughter safety.

    Congratulations you one of many women that dont satnd up for themselvs that shows your strong no matter what.

    Keep fightin...

    :)  

  4. Girl, RUN!!!!!!!  Your safety and your daughter's safety is the most important thing.  Get as far away as possible.  And while you're at it, get a restraining order.  I think marriage is important, and I never tell people to leave their husbands - unless they are being physically abused.  Get some counseling, move in with some family if you can.  If not, try to get out of the state.  Then find yourself a new man, and don't mention what happened between you and your ex-husband for a long time.  You don't want to seem weak.  Good luck, and I'll be praying for you.

  5. He has abused you for a year and you don't know if you should divorce him? He tried to kill you and you still don't know if you should divorce him? Are you sane? Divorce him. Go and talk to a lawyer tomorrow morning.  

  6. yes it is the right thing to divorce an abuser.why allow this in your life or your child's life.go find her a good dad,u deserve better then the abuse your getting.pick yourself up, dust yourself off and divorce him, as they rarely change.

  7. Get a restraining order against him as soon as possible and stay away from him.  Try not to let him know where you are staying.  Don't let  him sweet talk you.  You can move on and have a happy and safe life without him.  Good luck!!!

  8. stop wanting to divorce him and DO IT!!!

  9. yes. if your not thinking of yourself then at least consider your daughter's best interest and get out of the situation. he may not abuse her (and if he does than report him!) but that doesn't mean she's not being impacted by the situation. children are supposed to be raised in a loving environment and you deserve a loving environment too.

  10. you are doing the best thing for you and your daughter.

    If you leave your husband, are you any less than you were before you met him? No, you are actually better off. Really.

  11. Do I ?  h**l yes!!

  12. You should never let even one person put their hand on you in anger. You should leave and never look back.  You should also get some help so you can heal from it and to make sure you never chose a person like him again.

  13. ABSOLUTELY !!!!!!!  Divorce him fast !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  What would you think would happen if he actually did succeed at killing you ? What would happen to your 3 yr old daughter ? She needs her mommy .

    The faster you divorce him the better off you and your daughter will be .

    Good kuck  

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