Do u think having your child can be a curse or a bless?

Question

Do u think having your child can be a curse or a bless?

Answer 1

always a blessing! there is hard days & trials & learning experiances for my kids & myself. My kids have made me a better person. When i don't feel like i can smile or laugh on somedays, my 4 1/2 yr old out of the blue says something humorous or does something silly or my baby boy flashes his smile & well you can't help but smile back.  I have learned so much being a mommy & i still have alot to learn but i would never look at my beautiful kids & think it a curse no matter the situation.  

Answer 2

of course it's a blessing. Remember that there's always a reason why things happen. It might be hard to have a child but its worth it, imagine your the person that created that child. Would you call something that you made a curse?

Answer 3

blessing all the way, it can be hard being a single mom of a 2 year old and pregnant (by the same guy, broke up before i found out i was pregnant.) But i wouldnt trade being a mommy for anything its the greatest feeling in the world and i love it.

Answer 4

It is great blessing to have a child ..... it is a gift of god

Answer 5

A big blessing for me.  Even on the worst of days I wouldn't trade being a mom for anything.  There is just something about being a mom that even on depressing days it makes me want to get out of bed.

Answer 6

Definite blessing. She's nothing but an amazing little bundle of pure love!! I don't know what I would do without her. I can't wait to watch her grow and learn new things. I just wish I could keep her away from all the bad things in the World. I guess as a Parent though, my job is to teach her how to make it through all of the "bad things".

Gosh, I love her so stinkin' much!!

Answer 7

Both. A curse only because this world is absolutly alful sometimes. I hate the idea of my chlld going through the pain I had to go through of growing up and struggling in the world. A blessing because I never knew such love. My children are my life and isn't life buetiful.

Answer 8

How could you call a child a curse? That's just not right... My son is definitely a blessing. I believe all children are gifts from God.  

Answer 9

Both.. My children are a curse because I would not know how to function if I ever lost them to some sort of tragedy.  They are also a blessing because I have never felt so much love, joy, sorrow, pain, hurt and would not give any of those feelings up for anything.

Answer 10

A huge huge blessing for me. Without my daughter I'd be a mess over her dumb father. She keeps me sane. Everyday I'm learning from her, and she learns from me. If anything ever happened to her I don't know what I'd do.

Answer 11

God would never put a curse on someone especially using a child as the curse.  Woman were meant to have children so they are definitly a blessing.

Answer 12

Interesting question.  This is like the chicken and the egg question and can be answered in different ways.  

Children are a blessing because they are are our offspring, bring us joy and are close reproductions of ourselves.  Unfortunately, we are also cursed because no matter how many we have, they will always come out imperfect and also bring us sorrow.

However humans have learned to adjust to our imperfections and even more so to those of our offspring.  Today, parents consider it an overall blessing and success if our children grow up without too many flaws or imperfections.

Answer 13

always a blessing never a curse.....the only thing that could be a curse is the situations they get into or things that happen to them even then the child itself is always a blessing and we just have to deal with the bad and good  

Answer 14

Yes.

Answer 15

Blessing!