Do u think i am adopted????

Question

im 13 and i dont look like either one of my parents or family members.... ik have no bbaby pictures only untill after i turned 2 and my sister says she doesnt remeber my mom being pregnant twiice.... caould this mean i was adopted????

Answer 1

if you were adopted what makes you think you will have anywhere to go??? it is in all respects the same as a natural birth as far as the law goes.

sorry if you thought different.

Answer 2

At 13 your hormones are raging and changing.  A lot of kids have many problems during this time.  Don't let this overwhelm you and don't let your brain take you out of control.  I am an old woman...my advise:  See if you can talk to your parents and ask your question.  If you are in an abusive family...seek and ask questions about where you can find help.  I wish you all the best.  

Answer 3

you would have to check your orginal birth certiicate to find out or do a dna test call the maurry show they can set you up with a dna test for free  

Answer 4

Maybe.  But not necessarily.  Once you turn 18 you're legally allowed (in most states) to search for/have records opened about your biological parents.  I wouldn't put too much thought into it at this point though so long as your needs are being met and no one is abusing you. 9 times out of 10 you're better off where you are now.  

Answer 5

WHEN I WAS A LITTLE BIT YOUNGER THAN YOU I USED TO WONDER IF I WAS ADOPTED BECAUSE I DON'T LOOK LIKE MY MOM OR DAD.  IM LATINA AND INDIAN. BUT MY SISTER IS WHITE WITH BLONDE HAIR. I HAVE BLACK HAIR AND LIGHTER SHADE OF BROWN SKIN COLOR. I FELT LIKE I WAS BEING ABUSED ALL THE TIME. BUT MY PARENTS WERE DOING THE RIGHT THINGS TO RAISE ME RIGHT, I WAS JUST WANTING TO DO WHATEVER I WANTED CAUSE I THOUGHT I KNEW MORE THAN THEM BUT I WAS WRONG THEY LOVE ME SO MUCH NOW I KNOW THAT SO DONT MAKE A MISTAKE LIKE I DID. TRYING SEARCHING ON THE INTERNET FOR YOUR BIRTH HISTORY.  LIKE WWW.ANCESTRY.COM START A FAMILY TREE. SOMETIMES IT GIVES YOU POSSIBLE FAMILY MEMBERS THERE'S RESOURCES TO HELP. ASK YOUR PARENTS IF YOU CAN SEE YOUR BIRTH CERTIFICATE. GOOD LUCK.

Answer 6

it is a possibility! check it out!

Answer 7

Yeah, it is possible. If I were you, I would see a therapist, and talk about how they are abusive, and that you think they are adopted, and have someone legal look at your birth certificate.

Good luck. :)

Answer 8

wow.. KEEP ASKING QUESTIONS AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE

LIKE ASK YOUR MOM WHAT HOSPITAL WERE U BORN IN OR JUST ASK HER SOMEEETHING

YEA U COULD BE THOUGH.. GOOD LUCK FINDING YOUR REAL PARENTS

Answer 9

well hun, if ur in an abusive family, and u need to get out tell someone so they can call social services and they will come in and check everything out...might even put ur parents away, especially if u have something on tape, etc. As for the adopted thing just ask them..ask family, your parents friends, etc..--luvs!

Answer 10

The only people that can answer your question are your parents, but if you were adopted you must know that you are in that family with a reason and that is : love. When grown-ups adopt they do it because they want to be parents and because they have a lot of love to share- or at least this is why I am thinking of adoption, and just because they haven`t talked with you about it yet, it is because they want the best for you and they were waiting for the right moment. Good luck !

Answer 11

Possibly, but you could not look like them because of something in genetics I forgot the name for, and maybe your sister doesn't remember that far back.

Answer 12

The only way you can find out is asking your parents? The truth may hurt but it will all turn out good in the long run!

Answer 13

yeah it could, but hey, even if u are you still have parents that love you, right? talk to your parents about it, ask them to be honest and you won't think of them any differently. Try looking for your Birth certificate as well.

Answer 14

its possible..and i think you need to find out from you parents not your sister though

you have the right to know

Answer 15

Sometimes, children don't always look like their immediate family members - looks can skip generations.  

The best thing is always to ask rather than just brewing it over and over until it is out of proportion.

Before you ask your parents, though, ask yourself a few questions:

For example

What does it really mean to you to have been adopted or not?

Does it matter?  Why?

What are your parents like to you and How have they taken care of you & treated you so far?

& If you were told that you were adopted what questions might you have and how would you be able to ask those questions.

By asking yourself first, you would be able to get more accurate answers and one that you would believe in.

Remember, parenting are not just biological connections.  There is much more to that.  Often, as we get older, we realise that people who act as our families are the ones that deserved to be loved and treated as real family regardless of the genes !

If you were not adopted, would you believe in the answer?  Would your parents be hurt by you doubting them?

Chances are, you were adopted but if you prepare and ask yourself those important questions first - you would help yourself and help your parents see you through knowing the truth.

Good Luck.

Answer 16

i have the same problem as you.. i dont look like my parents either.. actaully ppl say i dont even look my race.. and even if u ask ur parents, how wud u noe if they're telling you the truth? i think i was adopted too but theres no way i can find out for sure unless theres a DNA test taken

Answer 17

well it could be a possibility but you could just be over reacting (no offense) but you might not be adopted.  you should talk to your parents and find out the truth...i hope you aren't adopted!!!

danny b...email if you have any more questions

Answer 18

Anything is possible, you'll find this out as you get older.

Answer 19

It is a possabilty but dont get upset! Ask you rents if you were!

truck

iam a girl

Answer 20

Why dont you just report your parents to the police, talk to some friends and there parents to get your help! You might be adopted, but that wouldnt get you out of that family. I feel for you girl!!!!!  

Answer 21

yes you are adopted

sorry

Answer 22

I don't know.  I guess so.  i would talk to your parents.  Maybe your sister is playing a mean prank on you.  and maybe your parents just are not that good at taking pictures.  I know my husband and I am not.  and most of the pictures that get taken of my son are pics that my parents and inlaws have taken.  also, if you are the last child, out of three it sounds, they may have just gotten lazy and started feeling bad about not taking pics while you were little and decided to change that when you turned two.  

Answer 23

well, i do know a lot of people that dont look like either of their parents.

and maybe your sister is just trying to make you mad.

you should definetly take time to ask your mom or dad or both about it. maybe they will tell you the truth but they might also try to keep the truth from you...maybe to protect you.

if you ever want someone to talk to about this you can email me.

ps-please answer mine if you can!

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Answer 24

you could be adopted and your adopted family wants to wait until you are old enough to understand. Ask to see your birth certificate.

Answer 25

culd be coincedence

but seriously and sista culd b kiddin

dont get 2 upset

its usual to be adopted

and im nto sure..

sowi

bu i dont think yu are

80 yu arent

20 yu are

percent

Answer 26

it does seem like ur adopted.   how old is ur sis?   if shes older, like 5 years or more older, she would remeber the pregnancy but if not, she may just not remember.  good luck! <3

Answer 27

It's possible. Go to your mother, look her straight in the eyes and ask her if you are adopted. You deserve a truthful answer at your age. Best of luck to you!

Answer 28

Just go talk to your parents.

You may or may not be adopted.

Some people just don't look like their parents

And people are being stupid by telling you your adopted.

So go talk to your parents.

Good Luck!

=)

Answer 29

It sounds like it, but in your case it would probably be a good thing.  To get out of there.

Answer 30

You could try asking your parents first. They sell home DNA test nowadays too...I don't know if that's something you could do without having your parents find out though.

Answer 31

its a possibility.