Do u think is a little unfair?

Question

do u think that is a little unfair that u are not born the way u wanna look and u had to accept it for the rest of your life?

I dont feel good when i realised that my parent look fine yet i dont inherit their fineness-i am ugly, but others, their parent do not look good yet their child looks great?and those gd lookin ppl can enjoy their life?? do u feel bad and unfair?

and do u feel bad when just becuz of the ugliness e true characters is gone-like should maybe be born outgoing and friendly but your appearance juz dont let u??? becoming depress and sad??

Answer 1

Pretty on the inside will carry you much further than pretty on the outside...which eventually stops mattering and then goes away.

Just be kind and sweet and that will make you far prettier than any beauty with an attitude.

Answer 2

make-up is a wonderful thing!

Answer 3

no how is that unfair? Thats called life and thats how it has always been for all species.

Answer 4

I don't look at it as unfair being born ugly or fair being born beautiful. I realize that in a society that places so much value on looks and beauty that one has a tendency to base their opinions of themselves and others on this. It is unfortunate. I would recommend playing up your assets. If you feel there is something about you that you like (your eyes for example, or your hair) really maximize the potential of this asset to downplay other things you may not like about yourself. If you think your butt is too big, learn to dress enhance other features and remove the focus from what you feel is negative.

And most importantly remember that beauty is fleeting and remains in the eye of the beholder. We all eventually lose our looks and what remains is what's inside. That is what counts. Don't let your appearance dictate who you are as a person. I know many people who would be considered "less than average" in appearance but have so many friends and people that are just drawn to them because they are wonderful people on the inside and have great personalities. If you are naturally outgoing and friendly, don't let your looks hold you back from remaining that way! Maximize your potential! If you are funny, use it! If you are kind-hearted, use it!

I believe every person out there has their own strengths and weaknesses. Trust me a lot of people out there are beautiful and just don't see it. And there are many who may look beautiful on the outside but are horrible, mean people. Ya get to know them for who they are and suddenly they don't look so beautiful anymore. Be who you are, and work on what you can, but don't let appearance dictate your life. What makes you beautiful is not what's on the outside!

Answer 5

You shouldn't be THAT sad just because your UGLY! You seriously have no life! You should be ashamed of yourself! Life isn't all about looks!

Answer 6

You should see a doctor and he can perscribe medicine for you to be less depressed. You should also talk to a friend or family member about what you are going through. If you can't trust anyone, talk to a hobo.

Answer 7

Jan, ugliness is a personality type....not a descriptor of personal appearance....

learn to make yourself happy, then learn to make other people happy...... then you will be one of the most beautiful people in the world...

Answer 8

its natural to feel that something is bad with your appearance..but no one can get anything witht the beauty.It dapanda on the gene you get and you dont wanna fel for the look you get.Appearance are totally deceptive.however you have to lose your beauty when u grow older.So no need to spend time in thinking about the beauty.Just concentrate on your health.That is the one that comes with you all the way

Answer 9

why do you think you should be depressed & sad just because "you think" you look ugly? maybe you don't look ugly. I don't know your age but if you are a teenager it's normal that you don't like the way you look.

Besides don't think that all good-looking people are enjoying their life heartily. I am saying this because I look good but I am not jumping around like a gazelle, my mind always is busy with problems.

If you feel you are friendly and then just be friendly, don't restrain yourself, to be friendly already is a good reason to make someone looks beautiful.

Answer 10

well thats how god made you

and you should except it weather you like it or not.

Answer 11

beauty is skin deep and as you get older you will not be judged like you are now

and you can always change the things you hate

via cosmetic surg

also, who ever said life is fair?

Answer 12

Maybe its the way you present yourself - have you tried maybe changing your hair, clothes, style - wearing makeup? i doubt you're ugly but to make you feel better you can try these things.

Answer 13

good looking people still have problems to worry about. everyone has problems.

Answer 14

not many people lik ethe way they look. thats just the way we are. you may look very pretty to others, you just dont see it yourself.

Also physical beauty does not make your character. YOU make your character. so be what you want to be!