Do u think people feeling change with time ?

Question

i loved girl so much and be in contact for 4 months as closed friend and she know that i loved her ,but she want me just as friend ,finally she said that she hate me and doesn't want me talk to her again.

i try to forget her and move on but inside me i want her more and more.

do u think she will change her feeling with time or not ?lets say after 3 or 6 months or maybe 1 or 2 years ?

Answer 1

It's a possibility, but why should you have to wait? Time heals all my friend, try for someone else

Answer 2

usually they might change there minds were going through emotional grow up sooo yes she might

Answer 3

People's feelings can change but it's not typically immidiate. Such as, in ex., How people get angry. It takes just one tiny little thing, as a shove or push, for the feeling to change. There has to be a reason... There always is.

Honestly, I don't think she'll change her mind. I'd just find someone else.

Answer 4

There is a level inside us that will never change, at least in this life. That is our source, our purpose. It's not a psychological level.

Ideally, your psychology should align to this purpose, because the body will align to your psychology.

The problem is that human being can really choose. Even if it's wrong, still she can choose.

You can choose to align these 3 levels. Or you can choose not to.

So you will be happy, or you will not be happy. You can always choose.

Maybe she will change. Maybe she won't. Nothing is guaranteed.

But, you know what I've realized this year?

If I wait for someone, my needs are going to starve. I will feel starved and unhappy. How can u have a chance for happiness if your basic needs are not fulfilled? What if u cannot breath air anymore? Or u cannot drink water anymore?

Needs are needs.

My advice is to focus on your needs, and not force a person to fulfill your needs, because no one can force anyone to choose. People are really free to choose.

What's important also, is that any need will attract its fulfilling. It's an attraction there. You are already attracting people compatibile with you.

But I've seen the case when someone in need already attracted a perfect person for her need, but she refused him because she was focused on the impossible dream. She chose to refuse the opportunity and to dream away, bypassing her needs.

Do you think she was happy? She was miserable. And more miserable the next day.

I tried to explain to her, but she was a stubborn girl. So I accepted her choice for suffering. What could I do more?

Do you want to suffer more?

Answer 5

thats just like asking if you will change your feelings in three to six months and decided not to like her

if she doesn't like you than why bother wasting your energy and if she said she hates you than shes obviously not worth it

hoped i helped