Do u think that a husband should have stable career and financial consider as a good husband ?

Question

Do u think that a husband should have stable career and financial consider as a good husband ?

Answer 1

I think a good husband is one who has the qualities that YOU value. Some people don't value a stable career and finances and they value romance and fidelity. It's up to you to decide what YOU want from YOUR husband and then you will know if it is good for you.

Personally, I think if you have a husband that is loyal and tries his hardest to be the best he can for his family, then that is a good husband.

Answer 2

absolutely, if not he should have a very large p***s

Answer 3

YES, well like if you want to start a family then you want to have some sort of stability and that way your marriage is not strained with financial problems. WHich it really does strain the marriage. But on the other hand you don't have to be a gazillionare,, as long as you have a steady job and your aren't lazy i think that's a good deal

Answer 4

no and no,he doesnt need to have a good career or make good money,he has to be a good husband by being understanding,loving,carrying,sweet! money is not everything,

Answer 5

Yes.  But you should also expect the same as yourself.  A good stable marriage is one where both contribute equally in some way.  Even if one is a stay at home parent, both need to work at making the relationship fair.

Answer 6

It helps, but, a good husband, to me, is a good person who lives his life not to hurt others...

Answer 7

Career, no. But he should be able to contribute. As long as he works, and helps out then he is a good husband. Some people go their whole lives without knowing exactly what job makes them happy enough to consider it a career.

Answer 8

your definition of a good husband by who's book? For me I don't care if you have a career or just a job. What makes a good husband for me(i'm talk only for myself and not other women) is a man with morals and respect for me. Someone who is honest and polite. Someone who will love you on a day that your upset or unhappy. Someone who will help you out with the household chores. Someone that will go to bed with you and not just you by yourself. I want a husband who would be there for me and with me. I can see some night you want to stay up later that's cool. But not every night. Honesty is the biggest thing for me. So as a career and financially stable are good things in a husband but for me not a must have. Love and Honesty is all I need.

Answer 9

I think a good husband should be able to support his family - or at least cover 1/2 of the bills (I am willing to cover the other 1/2).  My husband has been out of work for 5 months - (his choice) and it has been the worst 5 months of our 14 year marriage.  

Answer 10

No. When my husband and I got married he worked at Dairy Queen! (We didnt suffer because I was in the Army) My husband is a good husband because he is everything I need emotionally, physically and spiritually. If you find a man who can be all that to you and have a wonderful career, then thats great. I think that if you find a 28 year old man who works at taco bell and doesnt care about advancing his education or career, I think that you should run like the wind! However if youre young (which we are, were 21) you really cant expect too much with regards to finances or job. Women like to be taken care of, and theres nothing wrong with wanting a man who can make sure that happens. I however, am perfectly capable of taking care of myself and I love to contribute financially as well. Being a housewife would never work for me. I would hate it

Answer 11

Well, I think that to be a good husband, a man would have to provide support for his wife.  Providing support can be monetary but is usually more than just that.  If the wife already HAS and is not really LOOKING  monetary support, the best kind of support the husband can provide would be emotional support: being there for her, dealing with her family, helping to raise the kids.  A marriage is a partnership and the only way either person can be a "good" spouse is by providing the support that the other needs monetary or otherwise.  The balance is different for everybody, but it is always a balance.

Answer 12

You must be Oriental; your question is worded just like one.  If he DOES have a stable career and he IS stable financially. . . .do him a favor and take a GOOD english course. . . .SO HE CAN COMMUNICATE WITH YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 13

Definitely! How can he support and feed his family if he's not financially stable?

Answer 14

no.  i believe the husband should be the provider for his family (among many other things).  as long as whatever he's doing to earn money is legal - i'm in his corner to back him up!  i don't think i could ever be selfish enough to expect him to take care of himself, me and our child alone.

Answer 15

It is without a doubt that when a man has a stable career with a good income, it would give you great security. However, it is not the only thing that makes a good husband. Those two aspects is a start, but what should determine a good husband are:

1) Compatibility

2) Communication

3) Commitment

I believe that if you have all of the above, then it's only natural that he would work hard to take care of you (and vice versa). You'll be able to communicate and settle problems, and he'll be committed to the relationship. If all you have is just a man with a stable career and income but isn't committed to you, then the marriage will seem like an empty shell.