Do u think that this is a good idea 2 give my man the slient treatment?

Question

my man is messin around on me with this other gurl and he had told me when i was with me saturday nite that he wants 2 be with me and only me and that he wants 2 work things out with us and that he loves me and miss me and wants 2 marry me and things like last time my man had me mad and i didint not talk 2 him 4 a whole month and till he gets his act 2 oghter and only wants 2 be with me and me only and nobody esle he had told me that he is just using the other gurl so that he can break up with her do what do u think that will happen when i do give me da slient treatment and do u think that he will try 2 get back with me when the other gurl is gone. me and him have been with each other 4 yrs and are annivessary is on jan 1 of 09 and it will be 5 yrs 4 us.

Answer 1

This makes no sense to me at all.  You need to use some punctuation and a capital letter here and there.  If your guy is cheating on you, then you need to get rid of him, not give him the silent treatment.

Answer 2

You can if you want to, I feel it is childish.  

Answer 3

Yes give him the silent treatment and stop referring to him as "your man".  You're just sharing him is all.

Answer 4

dude, he cheated on you and then gave you the your the only girl for me c**p. four words, dump his sorry a**

Answer 5

Giving him the silent treatment will not make him be faithful to you nor will it solve the situation. I believe that actions speak louder than words and although he is telling you he misses you and that you're important, he's shown you that he is not faithful or completely devoted to your relationship. It is up to you to sit down and talk things out with your guy. You can give him another chance if you think he will change but remember that every moment you spend with your cheating guy is a moment you could be out looking for a new guy who will treat you right. Although you guys have been together for awhile, it would be a waste of your time to spend further years with him since he hasn't been devoted to you. Get rid of him and find someone who will only want to mess around with you!

Answer 6

you are married? are there children involved?

If you are not married and no kids involved then leave him.

whatever you do , don't manipulate with the silent treatment, it's childish and not a good way to deal with your problem.

if you are married, i suggest talking to your pastor to get some counsel.  

Answer 7

He sounds lame. And the whole thing a mess. Give him the silent treatment for life, because he does not respect you.

Answer 8

give him the silent treatment! the only one he should be seeing is you!  

Answer 9

i thinks it's a good idea for you to move on, once a cheater always a cheater.

Answer 10

Personally I think the silent treatment is very childish.

You have a problem. Discuss it. Solve it.

You need to confront the issue. Being silent doesn't do that.

Are you not talking to him because you'r afraid of the answer you might get?

One way or another, talk about it, solve it by whatever means neccessary.

There's only 2 options here. You stay with him or you leave him.

Answer 11

Are you over the age of 13? If so, then the answer is no. The silent treatment is a child's solution to problems.

Answer 12

MOVE ON. Let that boy go, men want to make us believe things that are not true. Forget the silent treatment and MOVE ON!!!  If he really is sorry he will come back to you but I would not take him back just like that. Let him suffer like you're suffering now.

Answer 13

Never mind the silent treatment, you should be kicking his a$$ to the curb hun, why waste time on a man that has admitted to cheating on you w/another girl, that's sooo not cool at all.

Answer 14

hahahaha no unless you wanna make him really mad.. it would make me mad