Do we choose who we love?

Question

is love a choice? or is it something that we can't help?

Answer 1

no u cant find love it finds u people usually look 4 what they find appealing to the eyes. or personality . love usually happens by accident if u ask me.

Answer 2

i think we choose the one we love.. We all have "the right one" set up in our mind like what they look like or their personality. And when we eventually meet that person, we love them. We choose even before we met the actual person.

Answer 3

I wish it was a choice.

Answer 4

if it were a choice you could turn it on and off like a switch. i wish we could choose who or better yet who not to love. break-ups and heartaches wouldn't be so bad if we could.