Do wish there was a service for when you just don't care abour life, you could 'hire' someone?

Question

You could hire this person to be you or stand in for you for like 3, 6, 9, 12 months. (Maybe you can exchange and be them for three months... maybe not....)

I am just so tired of caring and I have no clue what to do about it. I am 36, and yes, I have gone out, I've known people, I have moved around a bit, I have done the things that you need to do to meet people, but SO MANY of the people on this planet don't care about anything but themselves!

I am tired of being happy with me and having it peed all over by some jerk who makes me hate life. (And yes, OTHER outside influences --- people--- can MAKE you feel crappy! So don't tell me to just say to h**l with what other people say and move on with life, because that DOESN'T work...) And I am not depressed, my confidence is just fine and I love who I am.

Anyway, I digress... do you wish there was that kind of service available?

Answer 1

Hon i think you already hired someone to lead your life , just take a look to what you are saying : people make me feel like c**p " right there they are managing your emotions like a puppet !

how do you allow this if you have a high confidence in yourself .

With all due respect you have been contradicting yourself when you posted this .

I know life can be hard but when we allow our ego to rule our perceptions , we are coming into a circle of a neverending vice of victim hood and the aggressor .

I advice you that you should find that inner incorruptible force and peace inside yourself so strong that nobody can get to you ! is that same feeling you get when you know everything is going to be fine no matter what , that some people in our lives are here to test us and to make us leave it all behind . They are the test you are the student , study and pass it with an A plus !

Meditate a little , release all the internal negativity by replacing it by compassion and understing and knowledge . Be alone by yourself for a while and learn to create a shield of protection , visualize happiness , get all the trash and poison out of your life , you can grow as  that  wonderful person that i know you are behind the masquerade !

rude people are everywhere hon but you dont have to become one of them . free yourself , dont follow the crowd  

Answer 2

Wow, that is a really creative idea. Like if you're sick of going to work, you could call someone up to be a stand-in for you. Or sick of dealing with people in general - that person could field your calls, e-mails, etc.

Other people are a major reason why i get depressed sometimes. It is true, it is hard to move on when people bring you down, because you have to deal with people, just to eat, get your paycheck, etc. I wish i never had to deal with another human being again.