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Do wives have a right to interrogate their husbands in detail every time they go out without them?

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no they don't, u should both trust each other, if your not doing nothing wrong then she is just insecure. mine is the same way but if she gets mad o well then she's mad till i get home. but i go out like once every month in a half thou with my buddy. roll up a newspaper and smack her on the nose and say stay. lol JK but 4 real thou she mite be doing that because she mite have dirty thought of men and she don't trust herself and she mite think you do the same thing she would. men and women think alike no matter what. i say if you dont trust each other do whatever you want no matter what she thinks.
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nope. just by telling where and wit who you are going , should be enough, anything more than that, its because the other don't trust you enough. did you give her reason to act this way? if you did, maybe she is not over it yet, if you didn't, then you wife is insecure about herself. if everything is ok, why will she be so insecure? is she scare that you might find somebody else, while you are out? umm. maybe, that's right she wants to know everything in details. talk to her, and make sure you guys get a clear point of whats going on.

good luck

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if you have resons yes but if you have been loyal its a little redundant for the wife to do that.Mine does though.
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There should be trust that you don't need to to ask him where is when he is not with you.  If you have trust issues, then yes, it is a right you have.  If he was a cheater in his past then yes, you also have the right.

Interrogating anyone is a very harsh way to learn information.  I would hope there is a better way of going about learning of his whereabouts. A plain conversation can solve trust issues.

I do not know the background of his lying or cheating, so I hope you find a less abrasive way to broach the subject.
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A right? Give me a break. How about you just talk to him? Interrogation is for the police. A husband and wife carry on conversations.

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YES, because you are married and there needs to be communication and trust and she probally just needs to be reassured that you are being faithful..but on the other hand if she is really being to jealous well then maybe she feels guilty about something she has done..i am just saying thats a possibility you know...
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Only if they have shown themselves to be untrustworthy or unfaithful in the past. If not, it sounds like the problem could be insecurity on the wife's part.

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Just another reason to remain single!

I don't think its anyone but my own business where I go, how much money I spend and on what!

I never remarried and its the best thing I've ever done in life.........I have numerous lady friends, but I answer to no one.
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A wife should not have to interrogate her husband. He should willingly come home & share the details of his time away when he returns. Marriage is all about sharing & caring. Wives don't always want to keep tabs on their husbands ( except maybe the not-so-good ones). Wives care about their husbands & want to share in their day even when they can't be together. Doesn't a man want to know what his wife has done all day & if she had a good day?
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The answer is NO.Talking,asking is okay,but interrogate is a different story.
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wives have the right to know every detail about whatever they want to know about and the other way around applies also. however, if they want to know every little detail every dingle time you go out without them, there are some trust issues there that need to be talked about and resolved if possible.
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If there are trust issues between the two of them, IMHO, the husband should expect there to be an "interrogation".

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I would say that yes we have a right to do it we are the wives!! husbands do the same,.but although i dont think wives or husbands should ask 21 questions as it would be obvious that there is no trust in the marriage right there. I say if your being questioned then one of you are leading a double life...
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it sounds like there is more to this question...like ur going out a lot with ur wife and she's not trusting you...hopefully youre not giving her a reason, but she may feel something is up, if you're going out and leaving her behind...
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First of all there should be trust no matter what. If there is trust, then there is no need to interrogate him. If you feel the need to interrogate him everytime he goes out without you then either he has a problem or you do.
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If they have done something in the past to damage the trust, then yes.

If not, then not really, she's probably just really paranoid and controlling.
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Only if the husband cannot be trusted.... Otherwise asking how did it go? or did you have? what did you guys do... I think are normal questions a couple should have the right to ask. If you avoid simple question like this or get nervous answering them that there is something else that you don't want her to know.
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Only if there has been an instance of cheating or almost cheating. Otherwise, I think that if trust has been built, you shouldn't care. The only times my husband has interrogated me is when I go somewhere risky.
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No, there should be trust in a marriage. However, a husband should be honest about the places he's going or things he's doing, but shouldn't have to explain every little detail.
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If the trust is still there in the marriage, then I don't think it's necessary for interrogation, it will actually weaken the marriage because you are giving a sign that there is doubt in your mind. On the other hand, if trust has been broken due to infidelity or financial cheating, then it's only right for the wife to interrogate.
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That all depends. If you come home drunk, lipstick on your collar, and smell like a french perfume factory, then I'd say yea. If you spend more money than you should and bills are not getting payed I'd say yes. However if its only to walk the dog, your safe! LOL
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Relationships should be built on trust. A wife who interrogates their husband every time they go out obviously does not trust the husband. I see this from two perspectives:

1) If the husband has given her a reason to be untrustworthy, then she has the right to know where he was and what he was doing and with whom. (She has a right to know this even if he wasn't untrustworthy).

Until the trust has been rebuilt, the huband should want to make sure she knows where he has been.

2) If the husband has been trustworthy, the wife should not be interrogating him at all. In this case, it sounds like some jealousies or insecurities are playing in her mind. She always has a right to know where you are, etc., but she should not be asking angrily or accusingly.
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Not unless you enjoy the thoughts of someday living life alone.
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they have the right to, do they need to? no. should they? no. is it a pain in the ****? yes.

BUT

did the husband give his wife reason for her to interrogate him? is he unfaithful? is he a liar?

depends on trust and how the guy acts.
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Oh honey.....where the h**l have you been? do you even need to ask that question? she doesnt trust you its your fault.shes your wife of course she has the right to ask you questions.
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Do you take her out with you sometimes? Is she allowed to go out with her friends without you? She wants assurance that you are a faithful man..and when you hesitate...she goes off...right? don't hesitate..tell her the truth all of the time and she will love you for it...unless the truth hurts...then you are on your own.
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No and if she does she has SERIOUS trust issues.

Relationships are reciprocal, if she interrogates you then you should have every right to suspect her machinations and motives every time she goes out without you.
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if the woman loves her man or whatever and is trying to save a relationship from going down the drain then ya i can see it. but if a man has a routine of going out every now and again with his friends, he needs thats time for himself as does everyone. h**l no women dont have the right unless he is acting differently. and giving a reasonable suspision something could be going on.
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I think so, and you should do the same in return if the wife goes out alone...

Marriage means no secrets and communication.

If you even have a problem with it then you are doing something wrong that makes her ask
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NO NO NO interrogation is for the police and being married should not be like parole or treated as an on going crime. Woman need to become more secure within themselves and quit looking for the negative all the time and

have a lil faith in the man she's married too.
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Ah....I totally cannot stand a nag. Sorry to hear you got one on your hands. If you want it to stop...you have to make it stop. Don't tolerate a woman's second class behavior...and yes that includes nagging.
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