Do women find male waiters that serve them as being s**y?

Question

Is it s**y? Not necessarily how the waiter looks, but more or less the act of a courteous man asking the woman if there's anything he could do for her, bringing her food and serving her every request? Do women like it? Of course, if the man is attractive I'm sure it's a plus for her as well.

I'm a male in my early 20's going to college, and I work as a waiter, and I enjoy serving women. I think I'm also eye-candy for the ladies, because I'm 6'1" and I'm on the school's swim team so I have a good physique. I notice many women I serve at our restaurant often wink and smile in my direction. When she's with a guy -- not so fun. LOL.

And I don't think of myself as being a "submissive" male -- that's the weird thing. But I just like serving women fancy dinners for some reason.

Would any women here mind if I served them them the meal and drink of their choice? :)

How many women here think there should be a Hooters for women? There are actually these type of places, but rare.

Answer 1

I get incredibly annoyed when my waiter flirts with me. I don't know... when I am at dinner I expect my waiter to be friendly and professional - that's it. I can't tell you how many times a waiter has started getting all annoying and flirtatious and I have to give him the death stare.

Now, if it is a restaurant like Hooters or if there was a Male-Hooters I can see the waiters being flirtatious, because that's the atmopsphere you are expecting.

Answer 2

its cute for a kid but to truly look at someone who is serving you food and be attracted to them for such a simple task as bringing food from the kitchen to the table is kinda pathetic. now if the man were at a spa and just got do giving you a full body massage and feeding you chocolate dipped strawberries while they fan you that would be hot..........McDonalds vs. Shakespears                    its also in how easy the female is. some may think its s**y. minimum wage dosent seem to s**y.

Answer 3

Yes, it is nice with a male waiter is overly attentive.  I think a hooters for women would be absolutely great.  keep up the good work and you will get great tips.  Some people that have never worked for tips do not appreciate the job that is done.  Like your first answer.   He probably never worked for tips.  I am a bartender and there are days I make $150.00 so he can stick it.  Most of the people that have never worked for there "wages" seem to be the worst tippers in the world, and feel like since they are paying for their food or drink  we as servers should be nice and smile for $1.00.  Keep doing what you are doing and go on and make women happy in a easy way.

Answer 4

From a Dominants viewpoint .....Its their job ..... being s**y is secondary

Answer 5

some r hot and s**y and i always make sure to tell them if they r

Answer 6

I only find waiters s**y when they are hot. In general I tend to go for more business or technical career oriented guys. It is fun to flirt with waiters though and I'm sure you find that it is fun to flirt with the girls that you are serving :)

Answer 7

I've been a waiter for almost 6 years now and I can tell you that most of the time, it is the older ladies that dig the concept of be served. Think about it. They come in and can have a moment were a male serves them, refills their drinks, and asks them what they would like at the moment. If you look at it from a sociological (maybe even statistical) point of view, most of these women have to deal with a male boss who seldom ever shows there appreciation or a husband who comes home and tries to one-up them on who had a more horrible day. Sometimes its nice to have a 45 minute to 1 hour moment where a male has to wait on you.

Answer 8

yes

Answer 9

I'm sure you're too s**y for your apron.

Dude, seriously.