Do women have to play hard to get?

Question

Guys... do you like the chase? Or to be chased?

I want to get my lover to call me. Am I better off ignoring him? Any advice... would help!!!!

Answer 1

It's a way for her to appraise her value.

For me I prefer as little B.S. and game playing as possible.

Answer 2

No, they don't have to. They can quit anytime they want.

I like a woman who is confident and secure enough to go after what she wants. Otherwise, she loses the right to complain WHEN (not IF) she doesn't get it.

I hate chasing after people who don't seem interested, and most guys can't tell the difference between "not interested" and "playing hard to get", so we'll just assume you're not interested because we hate playing games.

If you want to be ignored, then ignore him. If you want talk to him, then call him.

By the way, women don't play these kinds of childish immature games, only girls do. Which one are you, and which do you want to be treated as?

I've never understood where females ever got the idea that playing hard to get actually gets you caught by the guy you want. But this myth seems to be spread quite well by girls' peers, magazines, and advice columns. Certainly not by guys or men, I can tell you that.

Answer 3

I disagree that women feel they have to play hard to get,  I believe women need men just as much as men need women.  But the fact that our society has labeled a man who gets a date with a women "he got lucky" is amazing to me.  I see it as both of us getting lucky, I have no less value to a woman, than she does to me.

Answer 4

Yes ! I love playing hard to get !

Answer 5

Games are for kids. I don't like when women play hard to get. Its a turn off. Only insecure women play games.

That doesn't mean I want a woman to cling to me either. I say act natural.. like you act with your friends.

Why is it so easy for women to act normal until the possibility of s*x comes into the picture? Then suddenly everything changes. Don't really get it.

Answer 6

yes, the chase is cool :-)  chase him but on the other hand dont scare him off. there is a border line.  you will just have to find that out with him.

idea:  talk to him as if a friend was being chased & see what he thinks. ask him what he would do in eather case.  good luck  :-)

Answer 7

Honesty and openness is ALWAYS the best policy.  If you begin with the games, you will always be playing them.  If you want to speak with him - call him.  It doesn't make you look weak - it just tells him that you wanted to talk to/see him.  

Chasing and challenging are games - and there is no room for games in a romance between a man and a woman.  Games are for children...

Answer 8

No, but the teases like to. ;-)

Answer 9

Personally I can't stand it.

When I say no, I mean it. Don't bug me get lost.