Do women like crossdressers?

Question

Do women like crossdressers?

Answer 1

not g*y just comfortable with feminite side including ,sometimes, more depending on partner having a open dressing relationship ,i;m looking for that open minded person good luck

Answer 2

Interesting post I just wish I could find accepting women in Massachusetts. Any women who are looking, should go on Crossdresser.com because they can find available crossdressers and learn from other women's experiences

Answer 3

woman  have been crossdressers thuoght out time. but is realy crossdressing, or a freedom of choose,,, to wear  what makes you happy

Answer 4

 I'm a cross dresser. My wife of 25 years accepts me OCCASIONALLY crossdressing and even f***s me in the a*s once a month or so. I am so grateful to her for this.  Most of the time I'm a man with her but I love to be a girl with her too.

Answer 5

They surely do because almost 100 percent of females are cross-dressers themselves; imitation the most sincerest form of flattery ! Best example : blue jean fetish anyone ?

Answer 6

Two things I'd like to comment on.

To the CD poster who talks of CD's being a twisted bunch with fetishes, stuck in a fantasy world and doomed to a life of loneliness.

It's just freaking clothes. Are we all that freaken close minded and so easy to fool. It's called "Social Engineering" like (Man-strong must protect weak little woman). Hey boys, you think women sat around the house and brought into that pile of BS. Women would still be homemakers waiting for the next kid to drop.

Someone please tell me why a woman can go out and buy a business suit that is complete modeled after a man's business suit, and she doesn't have a fetish, isn't a sicko or even a crossdresser.

What makes X-dressing a thrill for some is that fact that it's taboo, a no-no. It's very bad. Ok, what makes women think they can be CEO's and run companies, who came up with that crazy idea. That's a man's job, isn't it.

My second thing, is I just read on a website a posting from a wife who is having a terrible time dealing with her husbands x-dressing. She's depressed, suffering sever headaches and on anti-depressants due to her husbands x-dressing. Her whole world is thrashed and everything she was taught is being challenged, the poor things.

Maybe we should ask her how she would like to live in a world where she is confined to a world of little self expression, few choices, constantly forced to keep your guard up, always be strong, never show weakeness, and if called on to go die for your country.

On another note she should imagine a husband who insisted she wear a dress every single day of her life. She should not pursue a professional career because women are best at making and raising babies. What gives this wife a right to demand her husband dress or be a certain way?

We hear and see it all the time in the media and in real life. If you dare pressure a woman in any way, you're a control freak who she should dump quickly. Yet, women have the freedom to slap, punch or strike and control a man and we celebrate her as a independent strong woman.

I say to the wife of CD's, get a grip and grow up. Just as you don't want to be manipulated and controlled, you have no right to manipulate and control your husband.

Yes, we would like our wives in s**y dresses and heels, instead after 5 years we get 30 pounds of fat in a pair of sweat pants that we're supposed to find s**y.  Real feminine women went out with our grandmothers.

Answer 7

I have to agree with what one poster said, "Cd's, Tv's and Tg's dare to tread on women's home-turf and they can't handle it and will not tolerate it. For many-many decades women have pushed the envelope further and further, basically trashing convention and redefining themselves into what ever they choose.

As men we've had to sit by, or be called sexist and controlling pigs if we dare open our mouths. Women have adopted every article of clothing that is socially normal for men. Do men complain, NO. It's nothing to see a young woman in a pair of jeans, t-shirt and wearing a ball cap. It's cute, trending and fashionable. She's just sporty, comfy and looks like a boy. She's not a crossdresser, of course not. God help a guy that puts on a blouse and makeup, he's a freak, perv, and a sicko who must be g*y.

The fact is women can't handle men stepping on their turf. As men we should step aside so women can climb the ladder, they should have every freedom and should never be judged. Funny how women do not extend the same liberty to men. Men should stay confined to the limited roles that serve women's needs and the confining stereotypes that women find comfortable.

For all the women's lib BS, you would think that women would appreciate men who are not afraid of their feminine side. Why couldn't a pair of high heels make a man feel good? Women have so many choices and unlimited options when it comes to expression and appearance. Go into any department store and the Women's section is usually 75 percent larger than the men's department.

Ladies can you imagine what it's like to be limited to polo shirts, t-shirts and dress shirts, slacks or jeans, in a few colors. Otherwise you're g*y.

How would ladies like it if men demanded that they looked and acted a certain way? College and education are for men, women should raise babies cook, and wear dresses. Oh, women don't like that, being told how to live.

Yet, women have no problem judging, condeming and putting down the men who would like the same freedoms and liberties they preach and have.

Answer 8

To be honest, as a female, it just depends. Some women actually LIKE feminine men, myself included. Physical appeal also counts. I've always been attracted to men with feminine features. But like all human beings, a pretty guy in a dress is better then a hairy one. If he's somewhat pretty, I wouldn't care, that's just me being perfectly honest.But, if he looks like a man in a dress, then he better be handsome. Sadly, I'm giving you the horrible truth, a good looking cross dresser gets better chances with the ladies then the plain one.

Answer 9

sorry to say that the person who made a poste stateing that a crossdresser is to live a life a lonlyness-suiside..is wright..women as a whole hate us be cause we are messing with thair power..but its ok for them to look like sweety dikes wearing baggy clothes..and to exspect us gents to get all sexd up over them..because thay have a hole between thair leggs...on the most part women are evil selfish..manipulatiers...and controll freaks...thats why i hate them..thay make me sick...and at the end of next year i will be  ending my life..and geting the h**l out of this fuckd up world...no jokeing..iv had it with people..and all the bullshit..women have ruin my life...you pig minded b*****s can go straight to h**l...hows that for some anger..from a crossdresser...all i say is men open your eyes..and see that the wonderful ladies are takeing over..and wish not to shear no part with us or be ower friends- or lovers..its all fake to them and a power trip..just plaine EVIL

Answer 10

I would say maybe .1% of women in the world are *into* cross-dressers, so you will be struck by lighting, bit by a shark, and survive a plane crash before you ever met someone like that.  Those aren't good odds.  

And it gets worse because even if you did meet a woman like that, she is likely using you to bolster her own identity as "sexual outlaw" and looks at you as an "erotic novelty" to be thrown away after your value as an erotic stimulant has worn off.

Also, I *am* a cross-dresser and I'm saying these things.  I don't care one bit if you find it disgusting.  I would find it equally disgusting if the woman I was with wanted to start dressing as man and treating me like her g*y partner, so I can't judge anyone.

The reality is most people like me have a sexual fetish that has the *potential* for arousal.  Meaning sometimes it doesn't feel erotic and that often gets mistaken by the cross-dresser as feeling like there is "a woman inside" them.  Many who go down this path end up becoming transsexuals and then later regret having done so.

The wish to express a feminine side is difficult enough but worse is all the bizarre behavior surrounding it that raises even more questions about betrayal, fidelity, trust, sexual orientation and so on. This is because many cross-dressers also have two other fetishes -- bondage and Gynemimetophilia (GMP)which is being sexually attracted to other males who feminize their appearance.

We are twisted cookies for sure, but yet there is little that can be done in the way of therapy or drugs that treat these things.  So if they are to be with us as "dark passengers" for our lives then we must embrace them and make them fit into our lives or else they will make you even crazier or drive you to suicide or both.

So you either embrace and face a life alone, lost in some bizarre fantasy world or you try to suppress and end up killing yourself...your choice.

Answer 11

yes Women who like men as crossdressers Are the type of women who are secure in the desires they have as a woman. She likes prettier types of men. Men who are more feminine, More submissive to their needs. She is in control of him, Making him #2 in the relationship. and wanting him to be her domestic partner. A Woman who desires a male to crossdress is a Woman who likes to feel and smell another women with her, But, doesn't want to hear amything from her family & friends about dating a (GG) woman. So she sleeps with a crossdresser who is more feminine then a male is usually aggressive. And now has the better of both worlds. She, is now taken care of by her crossdressing male, has a girlfriend can talk about how it is at work, what dresswear is nice, what curtains will look nice and so on. And....she has the p***s to take if she wants it. Crossdressers are good in so many ways. there's no negitive side to crossdressers. Why would an woman want to be with a male who isn;t a crossdresser?

Answer 12

I have recently been chatting to a closet crossdresser on a dating site and I am fine with his need to dress up and be a friend however it is my personal choice not to go to bed with a crossdresser.I like to be with someone who is clear on their sexuality and as a woman I want a man to behave like a man 100% of the time. I would seriously start questioning my own sexuality if I got any pleasure out of an intimate encounter with a man dressed in female clothing. I am extremely open minded however I am not willing to compromise my own sexuality just to accomodate someone else cause after all its all about two adults consenting and not one getting turned on when it would upset the other partner. I would also have a problem if there were children involved cause its hard enough for an adult to understand. I am sure there are women out there who do find it a turn on cause it takes all different kinds of people to make the world go around, I would like to offer this person some guidance where he can find the right kind of person so if anyone has any websites I would be interested to hear about them.

Answer 13

Yes love them i been with many women that love that i know how to shop!!! and wear nice panties and hose

Answer 14

sorry didn't realise it had posted lol :P

Answer 15

I really find crossdressers attractive, i think it makes them even more sexual than those "I am man" types, being truthful, they should be good looking and have slim toned body with not too much muscle, very clean shaven including under arms, legs, back and chest. I don't expect a feminine personality with that though neccesarily, I still want him to dominate me if you know what i mean ;)

Answer 16

I really find crossdressers attractive, i think it makes them even more sexual than those "I am man" types, being truthful, they should be good looking and have slim toned body with not too much muscle, very clean shaven including under arms, legs, back and chest. I don't expect a feminine personality with that though neccesarily, I still want him to dominate me if you know what i mean ;)