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Do yo sometimes miss yourself ?

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what do you think is the reason ?

and how to get back to yourself ?

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  1. I don't know if I have ever really known myself. Sometimes I try so hard to get close to me, get into the nitty gritty, but I am scared of the vastness and I back out.  


  2. i sometimes miss certain parts of my older self, but as a whole i think that i like myself better now.

    i miss the innocence i had as a child, the time when all seemed so simple. the time when i dealt with everything as though i see it for the first time. i miss that. i think that life forced me to toughen myself.

    now i try to remember what was it like to see the world with the eyes of a child full of admiration and curiosity. to really enjoy every new day that God has given to me. sometimes i succeed, sometimes not. but now i am aware of that. and i really am gratefull to God for every day he gives me, for people that i love and that love me. with every day that passes i am more aware of all the blessings i received and i am still receiving...

  3. i dont allow this feeling to take more than a second .

    when it starts , i correct the feeling and set it right .

    thoughtful question , shows good search in the self .


  4. Yes, I do miss my older self. I get nostalgic of the past and it helps to relive a memory or a particular phase in the past when I handled things better or was generally satisfied with myself.

    I miss myself when I am not being myself in every day life. I lose myself when I compromise myself and do not feel free of expressing myself but when I give up hopes and dreams. Without dreams, can there be any hope for the future? Any reason to go on?

    How do you get back to yourself? You try to tune in with your needs and work towards fulfilling them. For example, if you put on some weight, you try to lose it because that is how you picture yourself. For me, if I feel dissatisfied with myself, I will try to pinpoint a stage in my life when I was happy and satisfied and try to remember what I did to feel this way. Then I try to apply the same principles to retrieve my self from myself. If you think that if you give up on some things that you love (a hobby, your values,a particular kind of food) it will not matter: that is an alienation from yourself. Remember, we form our personality until we hit puberty and we rarely ever change personality traits throughout the rest of our life. Our personality has been "cemented" in place. It is like the story of the book has been written. Perhaps some changes will occur in the course of the story (as some changes do happen in our personality) but the story remains the same. Do you know many people who, when trying to be someone else, can stick to it? Even if they stick to their "plan", it will not be for long. And it will not be without some negative - often psychological - effects.

    So, this hopefully tells you that alienating someone from their own self can happen and it happens a lot. It is an internal fight, sometimes you fight between the angelical you and the bad you, striving to be good to yourself and others and above all, be good to GOD. Since, the beginning of time, the humankind has been losing itself and reclaiming it. It is this fight within ourselves that makes us better people. That makes us appreciate the goodness in ourselves. Now, it is up to us if we take this goodness and replace it back in the shelves of our soul.  

  5. Perhaps not myself, but the things that I did in some time, just I understood that all change, all is ever moving and we spend in life so quickly that just have a small piece of love of every one.

    I miss you Noha...

  6. Sometimes i say to myself "ana msh ana"

    The reason: i dunno

    How to get back? : life makes me back

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