Do you THINK we get ATTRACTED to someone LIKE us or someone we WANT to be LIKE?

Question

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Answer 1

We get attracted to people we want to be attracted to. Our minds can only do what we tell it to do. It can go both ways. Many people strive to be many celebrities because we want to be like them and because we idolize these people. It can go both ways. Whatever you put your mind to its going to go!!!

Answer 2

We are attracted to the opposite of us. That is: a man will be attracted to a woman, and a woman will be attracted to a man. The two genders are opposites and that is where the old saying " opposites attract" comes from.

When we do find a mate it is usually one who is of like mind, talents, faith, social standings and education.

So we do attract the opposites, but in that we are looking for someone who is more like us than any other of the opposite s*x.

Answer 3

We attract others that are on the similar wave-pattern as us, so people that are attracted to us have a much better chance of us being attracted to them.  We are attracted to both, depending on the goal of the attraction.

Answer 4

i think that we like those who like and hate the same things as we do. we like those who value the same things. we like those who desire the same world as we do.

Answer 5

nice picture u have. i think we r attracted 2 people we feel they might have something in common with us or we might have something common with them, esp if they r famous 4 somethings in any domain, art-politics... likewise i was attracted 2 ur picture first 2 answer ur question. the child in the picture attracted the child in myself.

Answer 6

we are attracted to both with a little bit of difference to keep things interesting

Answer 7

I think in many cases it is a combination of both.  Several of my greatest friends have similar qualities like mine.  And also, I meet strangers in my life who are so confident and have so much charisma that I seek to figure out why and how they are so happy in life.  

Thanks for reading!